Just to give up with husband

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Obviously everyone Is finding it hard atm but I'm so sick of DH. I'm currently pregnant and I have two small dc already and I can not cope with the way dh speaks to everyone in the house, hes rude, has no patience and constantly speaks to me like I'm a piece of shit. I just feel like giving up it wasnt so bad when I could go to work and get away from it but I just feel like I'm drowning.

Hand hold OP

You don't have to stay married if you don't want to. You can start to make plans for the future. But be careful, if he's abusive.

So you need specific advice?

Sounds like you may have had that moment when you realise your marriage is is over. Hope you are ok.

As a Christian, marriage is considered sacred. But honestly, I've never been happier than ending my abusive marriage. I live quite happily, separated, with 3dc. Dont miss him. By the time I was on here airing my thoughts about getting him out, i already knew a long time go that it was over. The support I got on here was very valuable.

How long has he been like this for? Pre-lockdown?

It sounds awful and I’m sorry it’s causing you added stress has he always been like this or has it got worse lately?