I am WFH
DH is furloughed
We have 3 kids under 10.
Whenever he’s with the kids they do screen time. He also frequently naps in the afternoon. I suggest going to bed earlier as then he wouldn’t be so tired but he says he needs to “unwind” so always comes to bed at 11ish. Last night he was on the sofa from 6pm doing whatever he wanted while I was with the kids and went to bed myself at 9pm (they get up at 6 so I need to really.)
DH does cook meals, and has been doing DIY the last few days. It’s not that he does nothing at all.
AIBU to feel irritated that he doesn’t “do” much with them, and that I feel it’s me who is doing all the hard work here?