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To give a Muslim family Easter treats?

61 replies

MEEEEEP · 10/04/2020 16:10

I've made Easter baskets for neighbours kids. Chicks, chocolate eggs etc...

Would the Muslim family be happy to accept them?

I'm not religious at all but I know it's a Christian holiday. We just celebrate spring!

I just don't want to put neighbour in awkward position

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MEEEEEP · 10/04/2020 16:11

I hope I don't come across as some xenophobic twat, just being cautious to not offend

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Moo7878 · 10/04/2020 16:11

My boss is a Muslim and her and her kids still enjoy Easter. Personally I'd say go for it.

SlipSlidin · 10/04/2020 16:12

One of my closest friends is Muslim, she gives Easter and Christmas gifts but I have other Muslim friends who are dead against it. Just depends on the individual.

FamilyOfAliens · 10/04/2020 16:12

How lovely, OP.

I’m sure they would really appreciate it.

Bluebooby · 10/04/2020 16:12

I think you're overthinking a bit (I'm guilty of this all the time). I'm sure they'll appreciate the gesture and the chocolate!

MEEEEEP · 10/04/2020 16:12

She's a really lovely neighbour, I don't want to leave her out over assumptions

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SlipSlidin · 10/04/2020 16:12

You sound very nice op.

MEEEEEP · 10/04/2020 16:12

I think so too blue

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TheClootieDumplin · 10/04/2020 16:12

Of course they’d be happy to accept them. 😀

MorganKitten · 10/04/2020 16:15

My Muslim friends get their kids eggs, the chocolate side of things is easy to separate from religious side. I give family eggs and we’re not Christian.

Weedsnseeds1 · 10/04/2020 16:16

Why not? Just check labels for gelatin and cochineal. I think it's nice to know someone is thinking of you, especially at the moment

helpthismama · 10/04/2020 16:16

No issue at all, defo give

Bluebooby · 10/04/2020 16:16

Tbh if they're the type of people who'd be offended over a thoughtful gesture and not see the good intention behind it, then I'm sure their not the type of people you'd want to be friends with in future if you see what I mean. (I think it's very unlikely they'd be offended though!) I'm not religious at all but a good friend has prayed for me before when things have been hard and I've always been really touched by it despite not believing in his religion.

PanicAtTheDiscLo · 10/04/2020 16:18

Yes! Do it.
I have had Muslim neighbours who shared treats with us at eid.
the mum from that family put it beautifully we were students, she said our holidays vaule everyone. You don’t need to celebrate but we would love to share.
I loved them so much. I might send them a box of treats when lockdown is over.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 10/04/2020 16:18

If the roles were reversed, and they brought you some treats to celebrate one of their religious festivals, you wouldn’t be upset, would you, @MEEEEEP - you’d think it was a lovely gesture - I’d think they would feel the same.

Reinga · 10/04/2020 16:19

You sound like such a nice, thoughtful neighbour!

Could you pin a note to the basket somewhere with "spring is here" or words to that effect? Removing the Easter connotations?

I would be delighted if one of my neighbours thought of me,even if it was connected to a festival I didn't celebrate. It could possibly offend your neighbours, but I think they would see that you have good intentions?

P1nkHeartLovesCake · 10/04/2020 16:20

Chocolate is chocolate 🤷🏻‍♀️

I don’t buy in to religion at all, but you can bet your life come Sunday I will be stuffing myself with Easter eggs, why because chocolate tastes better egg shaped.

Notsosimple · 10/04/2020 16:22

I’m a Muslim and I would happily accept, without taking offence, it’s a lovely gesture.

KitKatKit · 10/04/2020 16:23

That's a really kind gesture OP, and I think they'd really appreciate it!

MrsSiba · 10/04/2020 16:23

Provided you don't send with a huge cross and detailed reference to Christ rising again, carry on 😂

But seriously, you sound like a lovely neighbour and I'm sure the recipients will be delighted!

Ramadan starts in a few weeks so I think it would be lovely if you sent a little something then. Perhaps a small treat of dates or cupcakes. I know I would appreciate that 🥰

saraclara · 10/04/2020 16:24

I taught in a predominantly Muslim area. We made Christmas and Easter crafts and goodies, and the Muslim parents enjoyed it all, and reciprocated with gifts for us. Remember Jesus is a prophet in Islam. So there's no real disconnect.

MEEEEEP · 10/04/2020 16:25

I took them. Kids seemed very happy and mum too. Had a little chat over the fence.

Thanks for the little push to go :)

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TheClootieDumplin · 10/04/2020 16:27

Removing the Easter connotations?

There would be absolutely no need for that all.

applestrudels · 10/04/2020 16:27

My dad's muslim neighbours put Christmas lights in their windows in December and wish people a happy christmas... you'd have to be pretty mean-spirited to find fault over your neighbours giving you chocolate! Anyway, Cadbury's chocolate is all halal now, so should be fine!

Ifonlywecouldwishuponastar · 10/04/2020 16:28

Honestly they will appreciate it. I used to live in a multicultural town and neighbours used to give us food when it was eid (not sure if spelt right). Create some community and reach out op.

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