next door have their children and grandchildren visiting

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...for the third time in two weeks. AIBU to think they are being selfish when we have very small gardens so they are often within 2m of us when playing in their back garden. Their daughter lives locally in a large house with a large garden and she doesn't work.

Are they visiting or carrying out caring duties?

The relevance of her daughter living in a big house with a big garden is what?

But no they shouldn’t be all visiting and playing in the garden unless it’s a super quick drop and run of food and/or medicine.

Visiting, both the grandparents are in their 60s and fit and well - they are both members of the same running club and normally run weekly. My friend down the road is a member and they run together. Now they are running on their own/as a couple.

The relevance of her daughter living in a big house with a big garden is what?

Because the children have a large garden of their own to play out in, they don't need to come and visit and play out in the garden next to us.

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