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Are driveway drinks allowed

503 replies

NotPawPatrolAgain · 06/04/2020 08:18

With neighbours if sticking to the 2 metre rule?

OP posts:
TeetotalKoala · 06/04/2020 18:37

Christ. I live in a period terrace, with no drive. When I came out to clap on Thursday, my next door neighbour suddenly appeared in her doorway too. There wasn't two feet between us, let along two metres. What say the MN lockdown police about that? Should we alternate weeks that we applaud, should one of us hang out of an upstairs window instead? Even though I'd be disturbing my DC who were in bed? I had no idea that she'd be joining in. Should I have gone inside immediately? I could see similar up and down the street.

Drinks on your driveway is find FFS.

TeetotalKoala · 06/04/2020 18:37

Fine*

TeetotalKoala · 06/04/2020 18:40

For what it's worth, my street applauded for about two minutes and then we went back inside so we were barely together, no-one coughed, sneezed or breathed on each other, and we didn't touch.

Lennonmc · 06/04/2020 18:46

Go for it.

Hotcuppatea · 06/04/2020 18:49

I've done this several times. Enjoy yourself and ignore the puritan police on here.

bluemarie87 · 06/04/2020 18:50

Yes yes yes you can!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

bobstersmum · 06/04/2020 19:02

If you're both on your own driveway I would say yes!

Beekeeper1 · 06/04/2020 19:59

It is Kerria Japonica - a cultivated shrub, but can become very invasive as it sends up suckers everywhere. Pretty though and loved by bumblebees and honeybees, so please don't remove it! Bees are getting active now and there is not yet a huge amount of pollen or nectar for them (except in the countryside as the rape is in flower now and they can become fixated on it!).

Lennonmc · 06/04/2020 19:59

Be Warned neighbours will be making notes!!!

Beekeeper1 · 06/04/2020 20:01

So sorry, my post is in relation to an entirely different thread - not sure what happened there! Apologies

Gooseygoosey12345 · 06/04/2020 21:08

If you are on your own property and 2 metres away from your neighbour then you're fine. People are making up their own rules at this stage!
"Are you going out for essential travel"
OP ISNT GOING OUT!! She's still on her own property ffs!
I sat on my driveway and my neighbour on hers for a cuppa the other day (obviously we made our own). Luckily all the neighbours get along so not annoying anyone. It's nice to have adult conversation other than DH

fuzzymoon · 06/04/2020 21:31

Peoples responses are so funny. You are not allowed to do non essential travel that does not include nonessential walking on your drive.

I went out to get my recycling bin , my neighbour happened to do the same. We chatted each stood on our own drives. A police car drove slowly past. We got a smile and a thumbs up because we had a large distance between us.

It would have been so much nicer if Id had a glass in my hand not a bin.

WotchaTalkinBoutWillis · 06/04/2020 21:51

@Beekeeper1
So sorry, my post is in relation to an entirely different thread - not sure what happened there! Apologies

Grin Was just wondering what the heck that post had to do with anything, glad it's not just me haha

Malvinaa81 · 06/04/2020 21:56

I suppose you would still want to hold your street party if someone in the street had died of the virus.

You couldn't let that get in the way of your party, could you?

Alsohuman · 06/04/2020 21:59

It’s two neighbours on their drives, not a “street party”.

MediocreOmens · 06/04/2020 22:06

On one of my once a day walks last week I saw 5 neighbours who had obviously arranged to do this, all on garden chairs, blankets over knees with mugs and snacks. I thought it was fab, they cheerily waved at me as I walked past. There was easily 4 or 5m between everyone involved and it really perked up my day. I consider my driveway part of my property, it’s not don’t go outside, it’s don’t leave your house except for essential reasons. I didn’t break any rules cutting my front garden lawn this weekend.

Summersunandoranges · 06/04/2020 22:07

Oh I’d love a segregated street party right now. Im fed up with this. I’ve been social distancing a week before everyone else.

Laughing, living and enjoying yourself doesn’t make your catch it if you stick to the two meter rule.

Your most likely to to catch it at the shops

BigSandyBalls2015 · 06/04/2020 22:07

Street party FFS Hmm

Summersunandoranges · 06/04/2020 22:16

big so everyone can’t stand in there gardens, sit down and relax?

PrincessConsueIaBananaHammock · 06/04/2020 22:19

Summer laughter increases the risk didn't you know that, you murderous bastard!Grin

h3av3n · 06/04/2020 22:20

Are some of you really saying/believing people aren't allowed in their driveways?! There are no rules against spending time in your garden or drive....

WotchaTalkinBoutWillis · 06/04/2020 22:29

@Malvinaa81
I suppose you would still want to hold your street party if someone in the street had died of the virus

Where has the OP said anything like it being a street party?
Confused
If you're all on your own driveways, and nowhere near each other, how is that harming?
Are you in the UK?
I am. I don't have a driveway so won't be doing it here but can totally see why some would as there's a lot of space between some houses.

minionsrule · 06/04/2020 22:41

My (side) backdoor is a few metres from NDN's door. If we are both putting stuff in the bin at the same time we stop and have a chat for 5/10 mins, safe distance.
If i go out and mow my front lawn are they not allowed to do theirs at the same time?
I am really strict on the lockdown but some comments on here are bizarre

LynetteScavo · 06/04/2020 23:24

Of course people can go into their drive and have a drink while they're there.

All my neighbours were out yesterday at the same time (organised through WhatsApp) The nearest person was at least 6 meters away. It was weird because we couldn't actually chat, and I couldn't see a lot of them because of hedges, but it was nice to see some real life people while having a glass of wine and a bowl of nibbles with DH.

I think some people who are stuck in flats are jealous and so are telling people with drives and front gardens not to stand in them because it's not essential.
Tomorrow I'm going to go wild and spend all day on my drive while I sort out the garage. If the postman comes, obviously I'll step inside.

Holidayaddict · 06/04/2020 23:27

We talked about doing this with the people opposite (very quiet, narrow road). Decided against as were worried that other neighbours might not like it or would want to join in which would be great except we'd be in danger of having a large social gathering/street party! Friends do this in their back garden several times a week, complete with fire pit & take out fence panel between them and next door, maintaining at least 2m in between - sounds great! DH does driveway coffee with mate down the road. Make a coffee in their own homes and walk down & chats outside with appropriate social distancing.

I really don't get this Gestapo attitude - our community social media pages are full of it - OMG, there's a man in the park call the police!!!!

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