It’s at this point in these threads where someone pops up and says
“ Hi everyone, please tell me how I can get a job that earns £50k? “
“ I have no qualifications and I’m not prepared to get any, unless I can get paid to do them”.
“Oh and I can only work part time as I have two young children, their father isn’t willing to do anything and that’s fine with me because he’s a man and men’s jobs are more worthwhile “.
“Oh and did I mention that I can’t work evenings or weekends because Quality Family Time? “
Then they sulk and whine when posters point out that
Many ( not all ) jobs that pay £50k involve working for less than that for quite a few years. And need qualifications and / or experience. And involve working long , hard and sometimes anti social hours for years.
And that taking a significant amount of time out of the labour market in your 20s will almost certainly have a huge and lifelong impact on your career and pension. And that even going part time in your 30s will have an impact.
And that sacrificing your career and lifelong earring potential for another adult is almost always a bad Idea that will not work in your favour in the long term. Very rarely do such life long sacrifices receive life long appreciation. If anything , they often cause resentment in the medium and long term.