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To draw your attention this video of a champion boxer encouraging men to knock their female partners out during this lock in?

305 replies

RoyalBankOfFuckThis · 28/03/2020 16:52

link is here to view, warning, is disturbing

He has blocked me on twitter.

Billy Jo Saunders.

What a bloke Hmm

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Dieu · 29/03/2020 22:16

Fucking idiot Angry

Namechangervaver · 29/03/2020 22:24

I got this from a guardian article:

The WBO middleweight champion has apologised after images filmed from inside the WBO world middleweight champion’s car showed him speaking to a woman through the passenger window and offering her £150 worth of drugs to perform a sex act. He then asks her to punch a passerby, which she does, before the boxer drives off.

Words fail me

Notredamn · 29/03/2020 22:38

I didn't see it but saw that Malin Anderson is/was involved with that live stream. I wonder if she knows, as the things she has suffered through domestic violence are horrendous :(

Isoskdidin88282 · 30/03/2020 01:55

As an avid boxing fan, BJS is known to make light-hearted jokes. Obviously, I’m not trying to defend him, but he was clearly joking and he’s apologised now so we should move on.

n00bMaster69 · 30/03/2020 02:02

As an avid boxing fan, BJS is known to make light-hearted jokes. Obviously, I’m not trying to defend him, but...

Hmm
tillytown · 30/03/2020 02:10

No isoskdidin8282 we really shouldn't move on. No one cares if you are a boxing fan, but we do care about that fact that domestic violence kills.
This stupid pathetic man should be charged with incitement to hatred/violence. And you should grow up.

Annamie · 30/03/2020 09:23

Given Myleene Klass was one of those who spoke up against Harvey Weinstein, I hope she takes this seriously.

@JuanSheetIsPlenty

is he saying he would suffocate that person’s mother? After saying he would assault any man who hurt a woman?

He’s spectacularly stupid isn’t he?

I actually had to read it a couple of times because I couldn't believe anyone could be so stupid either!

Annamie · 30/03/2020 09:29

@Isoskdidin88282

As an avid boxing fan, BJS is known to make light-hearted jokes. Obviously, I’m not trying to defend him, but he was clearly joking and he’s apologised now so we should move on.

25 Year old Ingrid Escamilla was stabbed, skinned and had her internal organs flushed down a drain in Feb 2020 by her husband.

A Mexican newspaper joked on the headline 'It was cupid's fault!'

Joking about violence against women normalises violence against women.

The UN says 100,000 women were murdered in 2019, this is growing every year. There is nothing 'light hearted' about violence against women.

Annamie · 30/03/2020 09:36

And the paper printed a picture of her eviscerated body on its front page, along with that Cupid joke. Are you going to say that was light-hearted too, @Isoskdidin88282?

Women are becoming just a commodity.

Floralnomad · 30/03/2020 09:37

I’m also someone who watches a lot of boxing , hence my comment in a pp about not tarring them all with the same brush , this man is a disgrace to the sport and an apology is not sufficient IMO as I doubt it’s even sincere .

SnowWhitesRestingBitchFace · 30/03/2020 09:40

As far as I can tell Myleene pulled out of the event with no comment as to why, Malin has postponed the event until tonight and said questions need to be asked but that has been her only comment.

flashbac · 30/03/2020 09:42

Who the fuck are the people on this thread defending him?
And people say we no longer need feminism Hmm

stairgates · 30/03/2020 09:43

I wonder if social services will be called in to chat with the family about this?

PicsInRed · 30/03/2020 09:43

He needs to be arrested as soon as practically and physically possibly and publicly in order for the police to underscore how utterly unacceptable this behaviour or even these sentiments, publicly expressed, will be during lockdown.

Priti Patel, you made some lovely noises recently about supporting not forgetting victims of domestic violence.

Now put your power where your mouth is.

Inciting violence. Hate crime. Get it done, Priti.

billy1966 · 30/03/2020 09:49

I completely agree.
There should be police involvement.
This is just awful.
No humour at all.

He's appealing to the absolute dregs.

ITasteSpring · 30/03/2020 09:56

As an avid boxing fan, BJS is known to make light-hearted jokes. Obviously, I’m not trying to defend him, but he was clearly joking and he’s apologised now so we should move on

Does anyone seriously think that there won't be men who see that and do take it as an instructional video? Who do see it as legitimising them reacting violently when they feel 'frustration' when their wives or girlfriends 'nag' them?
That is why it is not funny. 'Jokes' about domestic violence trivialise it - make is somehow acceptable, or at least 'not that bad'.
Would you say, it's just a joke, lets move on, if it were joking about about punching people from certain ethnic communities as you found them frustrating?
He hasn't apologised for the violence he might have unleashed upone women. Every idiot can see this shutdown is a particularly dangerous time for women in relationships with potentially violent men. Egging them on is not a 'joke'.

Annamie · 30/03/2020 09:59

and saying ‘Sorry if I have offended some women’ is that worst kind on non-apology.

Wakemeuuuup · 30/03/2020 10:19

He is a disgusting vile man. No excuse for this.

RoyalBankOfFuckThis · 30/03/2020 10:35

The head in the pillow comment is referring to him fucking that person's mother but putting her head in a pillow so he can't see her.

Charming.

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JuanSheetIsPlenty · 30/03/2020 12:01

Ahh thanks royal

Does anyone seriously think that there won't be men who see that and do take it as an instructional video?

Not just men. Boys too. Trying it on their sisters, their mums, their female friends, girlfriends etc.

ITasteSpring · 30/03/2020 12:55

Laura Richards has a good piece on this and links to where to complain about him
www.laurarichards.co.uk/featured/boxer-billy-joe-saunders-posts-video-teaching-men-to-hit-women/

"Please be an activist and upstander and write to the British Boxing Board and the World Boxing Organisation and request urgent action be taken against Billy Joe Saunders:

[email protected]

[email protected]

Report Saunders to Facebook and Twitter. Report him to your MP.

Domestic abuse is no joke. These attitudes have to stop. It’s time to criminalise misogyny. Women deserve better.

#WomenMatter

#MakeNoise"

Isoskdidin88282 · 30/03/2020 14:40

His boxing licence has been suspended. Hope those offended are now happy. Pretty sure he’ll be fined but his boxing licence will be reinstated after the virus and I don’t think he’ll have to vacate his title but we’ll have to see.

Vaginandtonic · 30/03/2020 14:44

His boxing licence has been suspended. Hope those offended are now happy.

Good.

Yes, I am very happy at that news.

nameymcnamechangeagain · 30/03/2020 14:52

Wow. As soon as I read the title I had a horrible feeling it would be him. We know him, I think he’s horrific, my partner thinks the sun shines out of his arse 🤔

DC3dilemma · 30/03/2020 14:54

Hope those offended are happy

Everyone should be offended by this, you fool.

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