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Abused by dog walkers, I'm shaken up. WIBU?

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Roostersmum2 · 27/03/2020 14:51

I've been isolating at home for 9 days as I've been unwell, we have no garden so I've been in desperate need of some fresh air. Me and DH decided to take the DC (2 and 1yr) out in the pram for a short walk down the local canal.

There was a bloke walking the opposite way who passed us. He was wearing headphones and "rapping" out loud. Swearing.

Ten minutes later we saw him again coming behind us and he'd met up with with another bloke who had a big bull mastiff type dog which was off it's lead.

I asked DH to slow down and stop for a second because the dog had stopped stationary and was looking at us. I said "just wait a second with the pram and let them get ahead with the dog"

Admittedly I was a bit intimidated but I wasn't saying anything remotely offensive about the dog or it's owners.

The bloke we saw initially (headphones on rapping) started swearing saying "if you're going to talk about the fucking dog then say it to us"

I responded and said I'm weary of dogs in general so we are letting you go ahead.

He then began ranting about how people like me (with two young children) are good for nothing except laying down and spreading our legs.

I took the pram from DH and said let's just turn and go back this way, we walked off and he continued to swear and rant.

I checked behind us as we were walking off and they were pursuing us for a minute then turned and went back in the direction they were headed.

I'm very shaken up now and upset.

Was I being unreasonable or offensive Confused

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Beansandcoffee · 27/03/2020 18:07

They were advising on the radio this afternoon not to walk or run along tow paths as they are too narrow interest of leaving 2m space.

Ikeasucks · 27/03/2020 18:12

Your husband did the right thing tho in not escalating things, i imagine it was awful for him too.

Roostersmum2 · 27/03/2020 18:22

I've taken on board about choosing better walking places and we won't be venturing down there again Smile

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ToCaden · 27/03/2020 18:29

Not sure if it applies to your guy, but I have noticed some younger guys out and about looking for opportunities to rile people up. As others have said you were not unreasonable.

His introduction to you was swearing loudly in front of your young children. And I wouldn't be surprised if he noticed your discomfort and walked back your way on purpose once he met up with dog walker to see if he could intimidate you some more.

Roostersmum2 · 27/03/2020 19:52

I wouldn't be surprised either. He was clearly looking for trouble or somebody to take his bad mood out on

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PumpkinP · 27/03/2020 23:12

I live in South East London, people like this are ten a penny

SE London aswell and yep this is true. I’ve come to the conclusion some people go out looking for a fight. I’ve had random things like this happen to me completely unprovoked

formerbabe · 29/03/2020 12:42

Another SE Londoner here! Waves to the other se London mumsnetters and asks what you f+++++g looking at?! GrinWink

Roostersmum2 · 29/03/2020 16:43

Waves back then hops it home Grin

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BrooHaHa · 29/03/2020 16:54

Some people are just like that, OP. Best do as you did and not engage.

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