Ainu to ask if mumsnet ever told you off? Did you agree?

[cultkid]

I got told I was aggressive in an email before and I just so whole heartedly disagree
I wrote a response and then didn't send it because I didn't want to get in trouble
I love mumsnet and I have been busier the last month with my eldest off nursery but I would be so sad to be banned or asked to leave
I got the email maybe 2 months ago and it affected me more then I think

I've almost been banned for "misgendering" a violent male paedophile rapist.

Ho-hum.

I've almost been banned for "misgendering" a violent male paedophile rapist.

Ho-hum.

It’s just a forum on the Internet. It doesn’t really matter

I was told I had two accounts. I didn’t but my older daughter had her own account and we were on the same thread unbeknownst to each other. So it looked dodgy and we got locked out.

I got deleted for saying someone wanted shooting, pretty standard expression in my day

Not by MNHQ but by another poster.

And yes I agreed with her.

Years ago.... I was being a dick but it took a stranger telling me before I realised. I did apologise with my tail between my legs.

This is likely to disappear op

They deleted a thread I started as too many people thought it was a troll and made it up.
I showed I was a long time user and emails to prove my AIBU story, yet they still wouldn’t let the thread stay.
It was about shocking children’s care home Workers and social services.
I feel it would have been beneficial for people but hey ho!

As with any privately run social meda groups we are at the mercy of a group with their own opinions and prejudices. There is also a fear of someone saying something that gets blasted on the front of a newspaper to prove a point ...

I got told off twice:

• Once for “troll hunting” but I think they got the wrong poster as i really hadnt been, they didn’t respond to my email
• Once because I said that estate agents went to some special school for how to get away with lying, and all those I’d met were twats. Someone from MNHQ emailed to say that I’d upset people, had reports about my comment so they deleted it even though she agreed with me

You could always post it on reddit

I don't know why I was so affected! I was SO hurt
It's a relief to hear I am not the only one

I like mumsnet though
Is reddit not a bit mean?

I had a post deleted for saying ODFOD which I thought was standard MNese. Maybe it got banned when I wasn't looking. I meant it though heh heh

I was told off and deleted for calling someone a twat. In my defence, they were a twat.

I got told my posts were aggressive but they 100% aren't!! It really upset me

What did you say? Aggressive is subjective I suppose, what’s aggressive to someone else may not be to you. I feel I see a lot of aggression on mumsnet, I’m sure I’d be upset to be accused of it too.

I think I said something about someone being outrageous but I don't think I was aggressive
Ill go look for the email

I wrote freak
It was mean but someone was being outrageous but the rest of my posts are never aggressive
I do love MN

I like mumsnet though
Is reddit not a bit mean?

Reddit is a far nicer community than mumsnet. There are obviously some subreddits where people are cunts, but they’re easy to avoid. For the most part it is a hundred times more supportive, tolerant and good-natured than mumsnet (where people pile on for the smallest thing, and sneering and condescension is rife)

Oh really? I'll look into it
Forums are a saving grace
I've Been periodically housebound over the years and I am so grateful for the company

Oh OP I wouldn't worry about it. The impression I get is that the peeps at MNHQ are a bit pearl clutchy. Don't let it hurt you x

I also second Reddit is a MUCH nicer and more supportive platform!! People on here are right dicks in my experience. Any excuse to pile on, people like to make snap judgements about your character from one small most

POST not most! You get the jist ;)

I've been deleted for what I thought was a fair enough comment/question.
It made me feel like Big Brother was watching me.
How some folk who frequently get deleted and those who have been banned cope I don't know. Its hard to have a thick skin even ont'internet.

I got one in a last name change for being aggressive. Which is a joke as it’s nothing that others haven’t said to me many a time and the post still stood.