I picked up ds and his gf from uni yesterday. Gf is an international EU student and can't go home as no flights/lockdown etc. They have been together 2 years but we don't know her very well as they met at uni and in holidays she goes back home.
They were both upset yesterday as all their friends had suddenly gone and the enormity of what was happening hit them I think. I had said for the last couple of weeks that she was welcome to be with us.
In the car on the way home she suddenly said that her aunt, who lives in London, would come to our house at the weekend to collect her so she would only be staying with us for a few days. I said that wouldn't be allowed as aunt would be making a 90 minute non-essential journey to our house. She seems to think that this will be ok as she will be going to stay with her only relative in the UK.
I get that the prospect of living with people she doesn't know very well is daunting. Plus she and ds would be forced to sty in hi room for most of the time as DH, DS1. and I will all be wfh and needing the downstairs space during the day. But I really don't think she should go to London.
At the end of the day she and her aunt are both adults and if the aunt turns up I can't stop gf from going but AIBU to think this is contrary to what they should be doing?