To think once you have apologised it’s up to the other person

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If you text someone to say you are sorry of upsetting them, if they just ignored your message would you leave the ball in their court?

Maybe. Depends what you did & whether you really meant your apology.

Yes

Yes. But how good was your apology?

“I’m sorry for what I did” or “I’m sorry you were upset”?

I guess they are either busy or still cross op 🤷🏽‍♀️

No one has to accept an apology.....

Yes ... let the other person have time to process your apology. Just because you have said ‘sorry’ it doesn’t automatically make everything ‘alright’. And what exactly are they meant to say - do you want to be thanked for apologising? It might just be that even though you have apologised, things were said or done that can’t be forgotten or forgiven and it may have affected the future of this friendship.

I 100% mean the apology, it was something I said rather than did and it wasn’t intended to upset.

I’m not looking for a ‘it’s all ok’ reply just some dialogue.

Most people are pretty distracted and juggling a lot at the moment so give them time.

An apology is not a magic word. Even if you're sorry things never go back to how they were and sometimes people have just had enough of your bs.

Depends what you did

Are the last biscuit...yeah a sorry will probably work

Slept with their partner...not so much

Totally agree. Don’t send any more messages. It is up to them x