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To think men are despicable?

113 replies

UnderReview · 14/03/2020 19:47

Men are fucking despicable...

Pornhub giving free porn to Italians and donating this months profits to Italy - all great! But...

Pornhub also recently rolled out coronavirus-themed porn on their site including one featuring a “healthcare worker” in a hazmat suit

Wtf! Big sigh...

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h3av3n · 17/03/2020 14:30

The site is free but they're making their 'premium' subscription free (access to more videos etc)

LukeSkywalkingOnTheseHaters · 17/03/2020 15:00

YABU

Misandrist

dkanin · 17/03/2020 15:18

Hazmat suit porn? Why....just why?! Other than for the "comedy" value - why would someone watch this?

I don't quite understand how these sites make so much money, is it from advertising revenue? When so much is available for free I don't know why many people would pay for subscriptions to see more videos

Cosima1 · 17/03/2020 15:32

PornHub should be banned for encouraging warped mindsets; normalising rape and degradation and encouraging paedophilia.

It doesn’t matter that some or even most videos don’t portray this. Enough of them do. There are whole sections portraying incest, “teen destroyed by step dad” etc etc.

What does that say to a teen girl who has been abused within her family. Come on porn apologists, engage your brains for a second.

Imagine if there were free videos portraying violence against any other sector of society - certain religions or ethnic groups for example. There would be outrage. Yet apparently it’s ok when it’s women and girls.

Even the misogynistic titles and language used on these sites - replace it all with racist language and see how long the site would stay up.

It’s an offence to subscribe to propaganda sites encouraging racial or religious hatred and violence. Yet billions tune in to be entertained and wank off to violence against women and children.

CoalCraft · 17/03/2020 15:34

Women watch porn too, certainly I do occasionally, and I know other women who do too. That's not even counting erotic literature and whatnot.

Strangest thing in all of this to me is who on earth is paying for premium porn hub? Like it's already free, what benefits could they offer that'd be worth paying for?

Cosima1 · 17/03/2020 17:53

It doesn’t matter that some women watch porn. So what? The content is still the same.

So a girl has been raped and sexually abused by her father - as is reality for millions of girls across the world every day. She can go on PornHub and find thousands of re-enactments of incest, much / all of which she finds very triggering. There’s even a whole section dedicated to this.

Telling her, “oh never mind, women watch it too, you know,” is hardly going to make her feel better, is it?

Wake up people!

Percypopper · 17/03/2020 17:56

Pornhub is free anyway so I don’t know how they’re ‘giving it free to italians’.

Honestly who gives a fuck what goes on in the porn videos on there as long as it’s consensual and legal...people wear weird stuff in porn all the time, there’s always odd ‘storylines’. Maybe grow up a little bit

Eckhart · 17/03/2020 19:26

@Cosima1 OPs point was against men, so 'women do that behaviour too' is a valid argument.

None of it is commenting on whether 'that behaviour' is acceptable.

Justanotherlurker · 17/03/2020 19:29

She can go on PornHub and find thousands of re-enactments of incest, much / all of which she finds very triggering. There’s even a whole section dedicated to this.

There isn't a category dedicated to incest at all, and the majority of incest is step mum, step sister from what i can tell, its fun when you muddy the waters though.

Telling her, “oh never mind, women watch it too, you know,” is hardly going to make her feel better, is it?

Nobody is saying that, it's puritans trying to say all men are despicable using dodgy stats and hearsay that is being called out.

Motherofcats333 · 17/03/2020 19:33

If your man uses porn it is much better than him finding "a woman who understands him".

Cosima1 · 17/03/2020 20:02

There is a section for incest porn. Even if you just go on the general site, there are excerpts playing in loop of all kinds of “categories.” The first one I ever saw was extremely disturbing scenes of a man who was supposed to be a father raping a girl who looked about 15/16 and “breaking her in.” Extremely disturbing - what kind of sick mind would think this up? What kind of “actors” would insult the millions of victims of rape by “acting” this. I couldn’t believe this is legal, And it’s free at the click of a button. The girl was crying. Forced bjs, gagging, slapping in the face, the lit. Totally vile.

QuentinWinters · 17/03/2020 20:05

If your man uses porn it is much better than him finding "a woman who understands him".
Wtf? Confused. Porn has been shown to cause ED and other sex problems, some men get addicted and spend £££, some get addicted and go off real life sex. It isn't "better". That's before you get into the ethics of men watching porn depicting violence and degrading of women.

Buster72 · 17/03/2020 21:44

@QuentinWinters
Nonsense, men use visual stimuli to get aroused, porn, images of underwear adverts, fantasizing about a woman they saw on the bus, it all goes in the wank bank. They don't all get ED.

people get addicted to drugs alcohol gambling and spend money on those activities to the detriment of families at a far greater rate than those spending £££ on images available for free.

Buster72 · 17/03/2020 21:45

If a man goes off real sex and uses porn it's more to do with the relationship than porn

Cosima1 · 17/03/2020 21:58

Of course men and women get off on visual stimuli Buster. No shocker there. But we’re not talking about women on the bus or lingerie etc, If porn was just depicting consenting adults having sex, then fine. But it’s not, for the most part. It’s depicting rape, violence and humiliation. And people do become desensitised to this and yes, people start to need more extreme visual stimuli, so it is addictive. Do I really need to explain this?

sixeightfour · 17/03/2020 22:02

Porn is like a virus

sixeightfour · 17/03/2020 22:04

men use visual stimuli

Erm, so do women. Do you think women would shag any old ugly fuck?

Percypopper · 17/03/2020 22:37

There is a section for incest porn
On pornhub? I’ve never seen it Hmm

h3av3n · 17/03/2020 23:16

Percypopper incest is an extremely common theme in mainstream porn...

h3av3n · 17/03/2020 23:29

Does anyone actually think or care about the fact that the women in porn are real human women who are being treated violently, often ending up with injuries and long term physical issues because of the brutal treatment and obviously trauma from the things that are done to them, the fact they can't stop otherwise they won't be paid for the scene (that is not consent), the fact they're often forced to do things they didn't want to do?

Guavaf1sh · 18/03/2020 06:46

YABU - painting all men with the same brush is very wrong indeed

MrsEsss · 18/03/2020 07:25

"Honestly who gives a fuck what goes on in the porn videos on there as long as it’s consensual and legal...people wear weird stuff in porn all the time, there’s always odd ‘storylines’. Maybe grow up a little bit"

And how do you know that it's consensual? Can you tell from watching it? Do you not know anything about the porn industry?

MrsEsss · 18/03/2020 07:30

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Does anyone actually think or care about the fact that the women in porn are real human women who are being treated violently, often ending up with injuries and long term physical issues because of the brutal treatment and obviously trauma from the things that are done to them, the fact they can't stop otherwise they won't be paid for the scene (that is not consent), the fact they're often forced to do things they didn't want to do?"

But who cares, h3av3n, as long as it's consensual?? 🙄🙄 I think "who cares?" is the worse thing I've seen on this thread. Who cares that women are being abused? That young girls are feeling pressurised into anal sex? Porn is very often abuse in action, and men (yes men, very few if any women actually enjoy watching violent porn) get off on it. And it doesn't stay there. It seeps into society like a poison with boys and men believing that it's okay to treat girls and women that way and girls and women believing that that's what they should be doing.

MrsEsss · 18/03/2020 07:31

But as long as they plant some trees it's all good 👍👍

QuentinWinters · 18/03/2020 07:42

Nonsense, men use visual stimuli to get aroused, porn, images of underwear adverts, fantasizing about a woman they saw on the bus, it all goes in the wank bank. They don't all get ED.
Ugh that is gross. It's very odd men come on to complain about being despicable and then talk about "the wank bank". 🤮🤮

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