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To think men are despicable?

113 replies

UnderReview · 14/03/2020 19:47

Men are fucking despicable...

Pornhub giving free porn to Italians and donating this months profits to Italy - all great! But...

Pornhub also recently rolled out coronavirus-themed porn on their site including one featuring a “healthcare worker” in a hazmat suit

Wtf! Big sigh...

OP posts:
marvellousnightforamooncup · 14/03/2020 22:06

Pornhub is a disgrace.

QuentinWinters · 15/03/2020 10:11

They did a survey on porn hub and the result show a lot of women use it.
I think it was actually an analysis of search terms and there was a lot of searches for "porn for women".
Given how abusive and degrading a lot of porn now is, I wouldn't at all be surprised if the searches were done by couples or men who don't like watching choking/anal etc

This study shows men watch a lot more porn than women. (Aka no shit sherlock) ifstudies.org/blog/the-porn-gap-gender-differences-in-pornography-use-in-couple-relationships

I'm totally fed up with "women do it too" to justify why porn is ok. It's not. It damages the women involved, it damages relationships, it damages the men who get addicted.

QuentinWinters · 15/03/2020 10:13

From that link
70 to 80% of women reported either not viewing pornography at all or have a pattern of only using porn with a partner.

MarieQueenofScots · 15/03/2020 10:15

YANBU.

I’m so glad it took all of two posts to get the predictable “women watch porn too” and “NAMALT”.

Bots.

Thewomeninthemirror · 15/03/2020 10:28

I watch porn, my husband doesn’t....

Thewomeninthemirror · 15/03/2020 10:29

Can I also add, women choose to work in the industry!

QuentinWinters · 15/03/2020 11:33

Can I also add, women choose to work in the industry!
Watch "Hot girls wanted" on Netflix and then see what you think about that.
I think girls are groomed to work in the industry. That grooming is enabled by a society promoting that porn is OK and acting in porn is a woman's choice

Saddler · 15/03/2020 11:34

😂😂😂😂

CockCarousel · 17/03/2020 09:56

Completely agree with everything you've written OP.

It's grim and infantilising, they're prescribing free porn to keep the herds calm Sad

How does the saying go again, empty balls and a full stomach...

Iwalkinmyclothing · 17/03/2020 10:01
Biscuit
Neverendingslippers · 17/03/2020 10:12

Women use porn too. What a nasty thread you created just to slander men because a few people (not men, people) might be into some distasteful porn.

Gibbonsgibbonsgibbons · 17/03/2020 10:22

This pornhub?
“I was raped at 14, and the video ended up on a porn site”
www.bbc.co.uk/news/stories-51391981

See also re “sex trafficking” www.independent.co.uk/voices/pornhub-trafficking-exploitation-change-petition-sex-work-decriminalisation-a9369616.html

Hingeandbracket · 17/03/2020 10:42

I’m so glad it took all of two posts to get the predictable “women watch porn too” and “NAMALT”.

Bots.

Yes, sure they are - anyone who doesn't agree with you = bot. Of course.

MarieQueenofScots · 17/03/2020 10:45

Yes, sure they are - anyone who doesn't agree with you = bot. Of course

Yawn, do try and get the point, right there in the full quote.

P1nkHeartLovesCake · 17/03/2020 10:45

I’m not really seeing the issue tbh 🤷🏻‍♀️

Notredamn · 17/03/2020 11:07

Vile.

Justanotherlurker · 17/03/2020 11:18

Yawn, do try and get the point, right there in the full quote.

Think they did, you have called anyone not in your line of thinking as bots, no doubt implying those of a differing opinion need to be 'educated'.

As usual with all these types of discussion, it is only permitted through a very narrow lens.

No wonder it took less than 2 posts for the reply you don't like to pop up.

You only have to look up thread to see the converse, any mention of women using porn can be downplayed with an 'independent study', or porn hubs own rankings can be brushed aside as it will still no doubt be men looking for different porn!

21st century puritans need something to move onto I guess.

Whatisthisfuckery · 17/03/2020 11:32

Yeah I agree, it’s sick. It’s not all men sure, but it is men though. If it wasn’t for men making videos of women being anally penetrated, raped, beaten, spat on, strangled and all the other vile abusive things then women wouldn’t be watching it. Not that I can understand why women would want to watch it. I am sexually attracted to women and I’d rather have Covid19 than watch it.

h3av3n · 17/03/2020 11:59

Of course a man is despicable if he gets pleasure from watching this shit. Have any of you actually seen mainstream porn? Have any of you seen pornhub? A man who enjoys watching a woman being treated like subhuman shit and enjoys watching violence towards her IS despicable

Cordial11 · 17/03/2020 12:03

They do have a fab marketing team you have to hand it to them , always on top Grin

h3av3n · 17/03/2020 12:05

They make porn of anything awful that happens in the world eg migrants being raped by border guards, just wonderful :)))))

Buster72 · 17/03/2020 12:14

Of course through our history we have learned that banning stuff is the only effective method of getting rid of stuff you don't like.

Anyway do you have a source for this news.? If I can help this international crisis by jerking off I will happily help

BusyProcrastinator · 17/03/2020 12:21

YANBU.

Misogyny is becoming so ingrained and porn is a key channel for this. The stats on young women’s sexual experience being not just unsatisfying but actually painful are quite extreme.

AngelsSins · 17/03/2020 13:44

Oh my god the comments here!

Women are just as disgusting...not all men....women freely make porn.....women watch porn too...

Get your head out of your arse! Porn is made FOR MEN. Pornhub is a scummy site that happily hosted a video of a trafficked missing child being raped. But yeah, the priority here is to make sure we don’t upset poor men by ever judging them...

Cosima1 · 17/03/2020 14:24

I’m not sure how they’re making it “free for Italy” when it was always free anyway Confused

It’s a vile business which normalises rape and degradation of women.

No idea how anyone can even suggest anything else.

All the people who say they think it’s all lovely and can’t see what the problem is... Have you actually ever been on Pornhub?

Glamorous it is not, “Good films” indeed. WTF?

Talk about scraping the bottom of the barrel of humanity,

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