Firstly, apologies for posting here but will get more of a response.
So, my gran, who is in her mid 90s yet independent, had a fall yesterday. She bumped her head, grazed her knee and fell on her hand. She refused any fuss and went home.
Today I find out about this and try and encourage her to get looked at. She has refused saying she doesn't like to make a fuss. My dad has visited her and tried to no avail also.
He has just sent me this photo on the sly of her hand (the right one) and I'm concerned by the swelling.
AIBU to kidnap her and take her to the hospital? She says it's itchy today and she hasn't got much movement in it.
I might just add when I said I'd take her in the morning, she said "ooh no, I've got a hair appointment"!
Blooming independent old people 
