To think it’s normal to give to grandmothers on Mother’s Day.

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Do you give cards to gifts to your children’s grandmothers or your own grandmothers??

I’ve always done so for my granny/dc’s great Granny and I also get a card and gift for dc to give to my mum - their Granny.

All the shops have cards and gifts for grandparents too so I always thought it was normal. I’ve always liked to treat my own granny. She’s an incredible woman. I’ve only ever met my granny on my mums side. I don’t know my dad or his family.

My partner doesn’t think it’s normal and you should just get for your mum and that’s it. He doesn’t think dc should get a card or anything for his mum - nanny.

Who’s being unreasonable here?

He was never close to his grandmothers so maybe that’s why he doesn’t think it’s normal?

I get a card for my mum, and she gets a card for her mum/my grandma. So everyone gets a card but only from their own child.

I did give cards to my grandma when I was a small child, but she looked after me 5 days a week and probably did more 'mothering' things than my mum. My mum now lives in a different country to me/my DC, so it's a very different grandparent relationship.