AIBU re party

[Birdgirl67]

Went to friends friends party in a pub. Long story short but the barmaid was v rude to me and told me to leave (I didn't) after I said 'oh have u got any ice'. Just because I never said 'do u have any ice PLEASE'. I never asked her in a rude manner but she went mental at me. Feel like my friend who took me to the party now maybe pissed at me because of it all. The party host got involved too. Am I overthinking ?

That’s the full story?

Are you SURE nothing else happened?

Yup. I asked for ice .. barmaid said 'say plse' several times
I couldn't hear or understand her (I was drunk). I walked away . Went back to bar later for drink and got hurled abuse at and told I can get out.

I admit I had given her a look after the initial incident but that was all. Friend asked which barmaid was funny with me, I pointed her out then got abused. Worried my friend is peed at me now

Just remember

Always say PLEASE and THANK YOU

It really was an after thought comment to the drink 'oh do u have ice'

Yeah. I doubt that😂

barmaid said 'say plse' several times
I couldn't hear or understand her (I was drunk)

Then you'd obviously had too much already and shouldn't have been served any more anyway.

I was asking for a drink of waterv

I'd be embarrassed. Wait for everyone to forget! You're wrong fyi.

Yeah, that’s the bullshit version of what happened. I will not judge until I hear the actual events.
We’ve not all just fell out if the local Christmas tree.

@sometimes - how do you mean I'm wrong?

@PeterPanGoesWrong - that is really what happened ! Nothing more nothing less

You were drunk. You’re still drunk. You can’t even spell “water”
Sorry Bird, but you are being a huge twat for expecting any sympathy for your drunkenness.
Go to sleep now.

I'm drunk because I am fat finger typing and accidentally include a v on the end of a word
Lol - whatever

Perhaps wait until the morning and hear other people’s perspectives of what happened, things can seem quite different once you have sobered up.