If you watched the England v Wales rugby today (mens not womens) you will have seen an England player blatantly tickle (cant think of a better word for it) a Welsh players penis through his shorts.
It seemed very odd to me because it was so blatant and the Welsh player just sort of stood there bemused. I have heard about rugby players balls being grabbed and squeezed when they are all in a pilenon the floor, presumably to hurt them and get them to let go of the ball etc but this wasnt that kind of a situation.
No one really mentioned it until half time when the pundits just laughed about it.
I cant help thinking if this had been another sport there would have been outrage as it is presumably a sort of sexual abuse. Also a lot of children watching, is it ok for them to then replicate, I wouldnt have thought that would be tolerated.
So YANBU it shouldn't have happened and the player should be disciplined for it.
YABU it's just one of those things that happens in rugby and it's not a big deal.