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To think a Sun journalist should not have sent me a PM because I'm on a thread?

97 replies

Neome · 04/03/2020 13:52

And to ask you how to flag this up to MNHQ.

"Hello!

Hope you are really well. I am a journalist working on a story for The Sun about people who are stockpiling due to the coronavirus outbreak. I noticed in your comment you are keeping a small stockpile just in case - I wondered if you would mind giving me a little bit more info about what you have decided to stock up on, and how much you have stored?

Best wishes
Ellie"

OP posts:
Member984815 · 04/03/2020 14:38

@THATscurryfungeBITCH it's always bugged me , that must be how they found him

Neome · 04/03/2020 14:39

So delighted to see vote at exactly 50/50!

OP posts:
MrsTerryPratchett · 04/03/2020 14:41

Be like Mick (a firefighter at Grenfell)

To think a Sun journalist should not have sent me a PM because I'm on a thread?
Cacaca · 04/03/2020 14:42

You put something on a public forum. It’s not a private little club that no journalists can access. Of course she’s entitled to message you - just as you’re entitlement to ignore.

SoupDragon · 04/03/2020 14:43

if you report your OP on this thread, MNHQ will see it.

You can report the actual message in your inbox

MangoFeverDream · 04/03/2020 14:44

YABU they have a job to do and they want good interviews. I know the terms are what they are but a journalist can never get a decent story without doing things like this, sorry

ItsAllTheDramaMickIJustLoveIt · 04/03/2020 14:46

It’s a polite message. However I would reply telling them that I have no intention of contributing to their article for their shithouse newspaper. But that’s just me.

P1nkHeartLovesCake · 04/03/2020 14:46

I don’t see the issue, you posted on a public forum, they messaged asking if you’d like to tell them more to print in the paper 🤷🏻‍♀️

ItsAllTheDramaMickIJustLoveIt · 04/03/2020 14:48

Other journalists I’d mostly be more polite to: thanks but no thanks As I prefer to be totally anonymous on MN- it’s a personal decision. But yeah the s*n wouldn’t be getting much politeness from me.

MereDintofPandiculation · 04/03/2020 15:01

I believe that BBC news had a story on that is the same as a thread yesterday (fridge or cupboard for ketchup). Quite possibly: the latest issue of Which? magazine had a big item on where to store condiments, and BBC usually follows up on their press releases. Just because MN has covered a topic doesn't mean that all news on that topic must have come from MN.

Abraid2 · 04/03/2020 15:02

I'd have some fun with what you're stockpiling...

Moet et Chandon
Birkin handbags

VideographybyLouBloom · 04/03/2020 15:04

I've had this before and just ignored it. Why wouldn't you just do the same?

littlejalapeno · 04/03/2020 15:08

Haha I would defo mess with them and say you are stockpiling random stuff that just about sounds plausible 🤣 the sun is fiction any way.

Let’s make a list:
Water balloons
Insect repellent
Single use plastic cups...

Bluetrews25 · 04/03/2020 15:10

Well, I thought you'd stocked up on condoms and lube, OP, in case you had to stay in the house for a veeeeeery long time? (And television failed.)
Personally, I am gratefully looking at my stock of swiss army knives and dental floss. You can do so much with dental floss in an apocalyptic crisis.
They sit neatly next to the china teacups and stack of paper doileys. (One has to maintain standards.)

Abraid2 · 04/03/2020 15:12

Fray Bentos pies
Angel Delight

TiddlestheCat · 04/03/2020 15:16

Spam
Tinned peaches
Dr Whites Looped Sanitary Towels
And MASSES of anusol!

TiddlestheCat · 04/03/2020 15:17

@Bluetrews25

Rushes out to stockpile dental floss!

Herpesfreesince03 · 04/03/2020 15:18

I had similar from take a break after I posted about a painful break up between me and my ex, wanting to publish my story. Insensitive twats

ForeverbyJudyBlume · 04/03/2020 15:18

She asked politely, you are at liberty to ignore the request. I've been messaged by all sorts of people on here about strange things, just don't engage if you don't want to

CandleFlames · 04/03/2020 15:18

I'm a journalist for a national paper and I can understand why this might be annoying and an invasion of privacy. Personally I don't take stories from Mumsnet or use it for research (apart from for a pregnancy book I am writing where I asked for people to tell me what they would have liked to have read during pregnancy) because for me this is a private space where I like to ask for help and advice and I think personally I'd feel a bit overwhelmed if I received a message like that. I'd just delete and move on or report to Mumsnet, I don't think you owe her a reply.

Delbelleber · 04/03/2020 15:21

I am always seeing mumsnet stories edited in online news Confused

TiddlestheCat · 04/03/2020 15:22

And tinfoil and cellotape to make some sort of DIY hazard suit! Just tell them that!

gamerchick · 04/03/2020 15:25

Just report or block. I was very happy to see a block function in PMs Grin

Journos aren't allowed to PM on here.

Bluetrews25 · 04/03/2020 15:27

No, no, you DO owe her a reply! Poor thing is only doing her job!
Come on, OP, were are trying to help you here! (No-one ever said it had to be true easy!)
Oh, and good luck with the dental floss, @TiddlestheCat, I think you will find I've got it allllllllll. Hahahahahahaha!

sirfredfredgeorge · 04/03/2020 15:28

*I'd have some fun with what you're stockpiling...

Moet et Chandon
Birkin handbags*

now I know you need a pretty cabinet for the first, but where you do store handbags?

As to the private message, it's against mumsnet rules, so YANBU to think they should not have done it, and they need banning.