Picked up DS2 from preschool. He started throwing a bit of a tantrum about a lost glove. He then ran into their staff room, away from me. I was half way across the staff room about to get him out myself when the nursery manager grabbed him by the top of his arm and dragged him out. I am fuming but don’t know if my feelings are coloured by my dislike of the women (I find her to very rude and abrupt in general) and the fact I’m not in my usual state of mind (depression). So AIBU or not? Please be kind, I’m struggling at the moment as it is hence why I’m asking to see if my reaction is justified.