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To ask for a handhold?

999 replies

GoJetterGirl · 24/02/2020 06:12

Hello all,

GoJetterBoy after 2 years of fighting has finally lost the energy to fight, I’m currently sat with him in hospital, having come in a few days earlier for pain management.

I really need a handhold right now...

OP posts:
Longwhiskers14 · 25/02/2020 15:02

So desperately sorry for your loss. xxx

ohfourfoxache · 25/02/2020 15:02

Oh darling GoJetterGirl Sad

I’m so, so sorry. He was such a wonderful, brave little sweetheart. Simply can’t imagine what you and your beautiful family are going through.

He touched the lives of so many through your posts - there will be many tears being shed right now across the world, droplets that join the rivers of your tears.

If there is ANYTHING you need please just post - there are many people here who are with you. Sending the gentlest of

FuckPolitenessSSDGM · 25/02/2020 15:04

I'm so sorry. He was obviously a little shining light and was surrounded with love. Flowers I'm devastated for you.

Neome · 25/02/2020 15:05

Love to you, AdmiralCLingus and everyone close. Special thoughts to little DS.

Hand still out for holding xxx

Biglumpycustard · 25/02/2020 15:07

Sending you lots of love and hugs. He sounds like a wonderful little boy. xx

countbackfromten · 25/02/2020 15:08

Much love to you and yours @GoJetterGirl xxxx

Yabadee · 25/02/2020 15:15

I’m so sorry. That is shit. Just shit.

I hope your darling boy had a peaceful passing. We are still here holding your hand whenever you need it.

A candle will be lit here for him too. His light will cover the length and breadth of the country tonight.

Much love to you, always

MulticolourMophead · 25/02/2020 15:15

I'm so sorry Thanks He knew he had your love, and his dad's love, and I hope there was no pain.

mantarays · 25/02/2020 15:17

I can’t say how sorry I am for your terrible loss, OP, or how much I admire your courage and grace. Flowers

Canshopwillshop · 25/02/2020 15:18

I’m truly devastated for you all @gojettergirl
RIP gojetterboy

Treaclepie19 · 25/02/2020 15:19

OP, there are no words but just know you have always got someone to talk to on here. I'm so very sorry, I'll be thinking of you and your family. Your darling boy will live on in you, your memories and the wonderful way you talk about him.

AlunWynsKnee · 25/02/2020 15:19

There are no adequate words but I'm sorry for the enormous loss to your family. Flowers

MumW · 25/02/2020 15:22

Heartfelt condolences. 💗 🦋

Even though I don't know you in RL, my heart is heavy and I hope that you can take some comfort that GoJetterBoy is no longer suffering.

Browniegal13 · 25/02/2020 15:22

I’m so sorry. He sounds like a very special guy and his love will live in your hear forever xxx

Sexnotgender · 25/02/2020 15:24

I’m so sorry GoJetterGirl, words aren’t sufficient. My heart breaks for you.

WankmasterBastardDeLaShithead · 25/02/2020 15:24

I'm so sorry you've lost your beloved boy. My heart is aching for you, and sending so much love.

Becca83 · 25/02/2020 15:25

Sending so much love. He sounds like such an amazing little boy. I am so sorry for your loss xxx

Bluetrews25 · 25/02/2020 15:33

Oh sweetheart.
So very sad for you, DH and your family.
Thoughts also to the team who cared for your darling DS in hospital - they feel it too.
Thinking of you all.

LaLaLandIsNoFun · 25/02/2020 15:38

I am so so sorry.

SospanFrangipan · 25/02/2020 15:38

Oh darling Thanks Sending you all so much love. Sleep tight sweetheart xxx

GeraltOfRivia · 25/02/2020 15:40

I am so very sorry for your loss. There aren't the words to say what I want to say. Much love to you, your family and your GoJetterBoy. May his star shine bright in your heart for all your life xxx

Peridot1 · 25/02/2020 15:41

I am so so sorry. There are no words.

You may not be ready yet but please go the the Bereavment board on here. Sadly there are MNers who know exactly what you are going through. Some of them have been supporting each other for years.

Thinking of you all. Sad

EyUpDuck12 · 25/02/2020 15:45

I am so very, very sorry for your loss.

Hearhoovesthinkzebras · 25/02/2020 15:46

GoJetterGirl I read your thread this morning and have been thinking of you and your darling boy all day. I am so very sorry for your loss. Your love for him shone out of the screen and if we could all feel it just from reading your words he undoubtedly felt it as you sat with him.

Life can be so unspeakably cruel at times.

Poetryinaction · 25/02/2020 15:48

I wish I could say something useful.or comforting. Know that you are one strong woman to use this as a source of support. I wish I could bring him back for you. But it sounds like he had a fantastic life with an incredible mum.
Be kind to yourself. Treat yourself as your best friend would treat you. Don't expect anything of yourself. This is an unusual situation.
Love for you.

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