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To ask for a handhold?

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GoJetterGirl · 24/02/2020 06:12

Hello all,

GoJetterBoy after 2 years of fighting has finally lost the energy to fight, I’m currently sat with him in hospital, having come in a few days earlier for pain management.

I really need a handhold right now...

OP posts:
ParsleyPot · 24/02/2020 22:22

What a talented writer your son is to fill so many notebooks with thoughts and dreams.

There's so much love being sent your way, Gogetterboy and for your mum too, Gogettergirl.

Sleep tight little one.

HeadLikeAFuckinOrange · 24/02/2020 22:26

Both hands for you to hold @GoJetterGirl Flowers
Sending love to you x

Callistone · 24/02/2020 22:29

Sending love and light to you, your beautiful boy and all your family xx

ellendegeneres · 24/02/2020 22:33

@GoJetterGirl does he like animals? What is his favourite story? Favourite colour?
I want to fill my world will gojetterboy. I want to raise funds for any help you may need/ charitable cause/ additional comforts for the hospital being so amazing in supporting you all x

Barmaid101 · 24/02/2020 22:34

Sending lots of love, he sounds like the most amazing little boy, hand holding every step of the way, you are not alone, love hearing all about Go Jetter Boy x

DamnYouAutocucumber · 24/02/2020 22:36

I can't imagine how hard this is, offering a handhold. I hope you have peaceful times and more stories together. Xx

turnthebiglightoff · 24/02/2020 22:37

You are so brave, @GoJetterGirl. I am in awe of you. Your thread has broken my heart and all I can do is send you so much love right now. My little boy loves the Go Jetters and I will let him watch it every single day. He will always be your little boy and you will always be his mummy. Thank you for sharing this and making us all realise that we are so very lucky in our children. Lots of peace, light and love to all of you. Please reach out if any of us can do anything. Xx

Qwerty543 · 24/02/2020 22:38

Hand holding OP. What a heartbreaking situation. Flowers

Dontstepinthecowpat · 24/02/2020 22:38

Holding you both in love, I’m so sorry. Some special people make more of an impact on the world in their short time than others do in all the time on earth. Your little Go Jetter sounds so incredible.

HotGlueGun · 24/02/2020 22:42

My heart is absolutely breaking for you and I just can't even begin to imagine what you're going through. Your boy sounds so lovely and he's obviously very much loved x x x

WLmum · 24/02/2020 22:42

Night night gojetter girl and boy. Keep reading/posting however is useful to you. Many lovely mners are around through the night to hold hands, chat and send love.

DartmoorDoughnut · 24/02/2020 22:43

Thinking of you both xx

Walnutwhipster · 24/02/2020 22:45

Sending you and your amazing son all my love. He sounds an absolute delight, so bright and creative. xx

Knitwit99 · 24/02/2020 22:45

I'm so sorry your boy is so sick, it's not fair. I hope he is peaceful, I'm sure he is if he knows you're there.

I hope we are helping to keep you going through this day and night, we can't do much more but we are all here holding you up so you can go on holding his hand for as long as he needs you.

Can you sleep, are you able to cuddle up beside him? Or have a nap in the chair beside his bed?

MumW · 24/02/2020 22:46

I think I remember your thread about the outlaws making it all about them.

Sending hugs and peaceful thoughts to you.

Haven't come across the GoJetters before - my DC more Teletubbies era - does DS have a favourite?

FlowersBear(no GoJetter emoji so bear will have to do)

NoIDontWatchLoveIsland · 24/02/2020 22:52

Oh OP what a lovely son. Holding your hand through the ether (and crying a little bit for you). It isn't fair.

NoIDontWatchLoveIsland · 24/02/2020 22:55

Ps keep talking about him OP. We are always here and we always want to hear about your beautiful son.

Thetigeronthewobbelboard · 24/02/2020 22:57

Your son sounds remarkable. You must be so proud. Hugs for you and your boy tonight.

Catapillarsruletheworld · 24/02/2020 23:00

There really are no words for what you are going through.
I’m sure your little boy takes comfort from you being with him. He sounds like an amazing little chap.

Kanga83 · 24/02/2020 23:07

Thinking of you and gojetterboy all day OP. I watched Go Jetters before I went up to bed, my way of marking a remarkable young boy. Ubercorn will no doubt recruit him into the go jetter academy to keep the world turning x

gillybombilly · 24/02/2020 23:09

Sending gentle hugs and loving thoughts to you and your beautiful son. There is so much love for you both - more than you will ever know xx

hmb255 · 24/02/2020 23:12

Sending all my thoughts and love to you and your little boy xxx

Utilityroomenvy · 24/02/2020 23:15

What a wonderful little boy. He sounds so brave and strong and so funny! I have written and deleted several sentences as really there is nothing that can be said to help or ease pain, other than to let you know there are people thinking of you, sending you love to get through what comes. You sound strong, and if that strength falters then know we are here for you.

RubbishG3nericUsername · 24/02/2020 23:15

Wishing you so much love and strength. Xx

Fabellini · 24/02/2020 23:16

Ready with a hand hold for you lovey.
Lots of us are up til very late, and lots of us are in different time zones, so just reach out if you need to and we will be here. ❤️