Went on bf’s iPad last night to check something and as I put in the code first thing that came up was a porn video of this girl who I actually thought was my bf’s ex. They are the spitting image of each other if it isn’t actually her - pretty sure it’s not. Also he had a tab open showing he’d been on the Instagram page for the porn star looking at her half naked pics too.
AIBU to be hurt that he’s getting himself off to a girl who looks the identical image of his ex?
Doesn’t help that his ex is 12 years younger than him, an absolutely stunning brunette and I’m blonde and average in my eyes although he tells me I’m his perfect girl but how can that be when he’s looking up this girl!
He left his ex cos she cheated on him multiple times but it wasnt that he really wanted to leave just he had no choice..they have a daughter so he still sees his ex every week and she hates us being together even though she has a bf.
I feel so sad today and am being off even though I don’t want to be. I don’t care about the porn side of it just that he’s picked that specific person.
Some of his family have said that he’s still wrapped up in her and sometimes it does seem that way as he gets so frustrated When he talks to her. They have been split 3 years.
We have just moved in together too.