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AIBU to ask her to go gym with me? How would you feel?

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gymbuddy12 · 20/02/2020 11:25

It’s ex’s girlfriend of a year, I’ve only met her twice. She seems really nice, we live 10 mins from each other. Yesterday ex came round, we were talking and I just told him I wanted to start going to the gym. So he said “oh Sara was talking about the same thing couple weeks ago”

AIBU to ask her if she wants to go to the gym with me? It’s a walking distance from us, and she works 3 days a week, and off for two. It would be nice to have a gym buddy, I don’t have any friends who live near me.

Would you be a bit Hmm if you were the girlfriend? I don’t know if it’s to soon.

OP posts:
19lottie82 · 20/02/2020 11:26

I think that sounds really nice! Maybe double check with your ex that he doesn’t mind?

gymbuddy12 · 20/02/2020 11:47

I was going to text him and have him
ask her tbh. Don't want to put her on the spot

OP posts:
44PumpLane · 20/02/2020 11:53

I think that would be nice too, but then I'm considered odd in many social circles in that I genuinely like my husbands ex wife. She's a lovely person.

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