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To do it

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shas19 · 14/02/2020 12:51

So some of you may of heard of onlyfans? Well ive seen how much money sone women are making from it and if I had my way I'd do it but my partner has said no and anyone that does it has no self respect and a few other choice words rolls eyes. I'm at home all day looking after dd a d want some extra cash, has anyone ever done anything like it? Or even just texting for money?

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IShineAShoe · 14/02/2020 13:03

I had to google this as I’ve never heard of it. But it’s porn? YABU to do this without your partner in agreement. I agree with your partner that it’s degrading.

Hoik · 14/02/2020 13:04

Onlyfans, as in the amateur porn site? How you going to make content when you have your DD toddling around? What are you going to do when she starts school and one (or more) of the parents recognises you from your work? How will you keep it from your DH or if you do tell him how will you deal with his judgement? How will you deal with the weirdos and perverts? What will you do if any of them track you down?

I don't think you've thought it through properly.

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shas19 · 14/02/2020 13:11

How is it degrading? I wouldnt be showing my face so nobody would recognize me I'm not silly. Also, I do school run anyway. My daughter has two naps throughout the day so that's a while 3hrs so yes has been thought through. It's not a long term option of course

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shas19 · 14/02/2020 13:13

Also, I know someone who has an account and literally posts her feet and no naked content, she makes on average 1500 a week!

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Hoik · 14/02/2020 14:11

£1500 a week? I doubt it. Quite often the grass seems greener on the other side because its fertilised with bullshit.

I think you'd be mad to do it.

Zurina · 14/02/2020 14:27

After seeing findoms online and how much money some of them make, I was tempted. I showed DP and he told me if I really wanted to, I could. This one woman was about 19 and she made a 50-something year old man make a video dressed as a pig asking to be stripped of all his pride and cash, humiliating himself.

AriadnesFilament · 14/02/2020 14:28

So you’re basically shilling for new people to sign up then.

Classy.

Biancadelrioisback · 14/02/2020 14:34

I mean, it's up to you really. If your partner has told you he's not okay with it you'd be a pretty shit partner to do it anyways. Your choice of course but I'd dump you for that

FizzyIce · 14/02/2020 14:40

Nope .

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shas19 · 14/02/2020 15:59

1500 a week is what she makes roughly. Shes a good friend of mine

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CakeandCustard28 · 14/02/2020 16:17

YABU you really ought to respect his feelings over this one. I would end things if my DH did this.

Mummyzzz044 · 14/02/2020 17:22

Only you can say how you feel. If it doesnt feel degrading for you and your partner agrees I would go for it..... I'm now going to Google this properly lol

Enchiladas · 14/02/2020 17:30

Oh man your poor DD Sad

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