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‘Bubbly’ ‘smiley’ work colleagues

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Joker0fGotham · 13/02/2020 08:25

Thoughts?

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daisychain01 · 15/02/2020 03:56

Smacks of everyday sexism - not necessarily by you OP but in general.

The offensive word is "bubbly" - you never ever hear of a man being described as "bubbly". Urgh.

OnABeachSomewhere · 16/02/2020 00:54

I agree Turkey. One of the most unpleasant, unkind people I've ever met described herself as a "social butterfly" Hmm

Keeoe · 16/02/2020 02:04

I dropped 'down' to a new post last year after a breakdown and a period of serious illness. Previously had a stressful management job. I adore it.

I now work for a large supermarket in the most basic of jobs but I am so happy. I look forward to work every day. I now have my regulars, who I see almost every day and have zero stress.

Whilst its important to stretch yourself, you have to balance job satisfaction. I'm so lucky that I don't have huge mortgage/bills and that I can manage on what I earn. I realise that for many this isn't possible and I am fortunate.

I now realise though that money isnt everything. Stress damn near killed my husband last year, and would have definitely killed our relationship.

I am now that 'bubbly, smiley' colleague. Because I am happy. It's not false or because I feel I have to plaster a smile on - it's because I am. Sorry. This has veered so far from your OP.

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