Relationship

[Tomtommy]

My partner of four months was asleep when her phone buzzed four times this morning all four messages were from men saying morning x or
Morning gorgeous x etc
One went into more detail saying how he wished he was waking up with her and how sexy she was while I had phone she got a tinder message form a guy
We had a row and I left am I being unreasonable ?

Well, you shouldn't have really looked at her phone, so YABU in that regard.

YANBU to leave given the messages.

How did she explain them? Do you see the relationship as more serious / exclusive than she does?

You’ve been together 4 months. Have you had the exclusivity conversation yet? If you have and she is still on tinder etc then no you ANBU and after four months I would just value myself more and not go back. If you haven’t then now is the time to have it and find out where you stand