Hi guys. So me and OH live together and have been together for 3 years but we have only lived together since October.. we are engaged and i am due on the 7th of March, he has epilepsy and had a seizure on new years eve and lost his license for another year, he was due to get his license back on the 5th of February and had a driving job lined up. Which obviously he cant do any more.. but he told me hes going to wait now until he can drive again to get a delivering job.. (also his epilepsy isnt bad it is triggered by to much alcohol which stupidly he drank to much the night before and that's why he took one) so he is kind of beating himself up a bit To. But this is my AIBU... I am worried that we will fight more with a new baby and he will be round the house to much and we will spend to much time together, as we will both be tired being up all night with baby etc,is it unreasonable that I would rather him go back to work a few weeks after I have the baby?? Even if its somewhere 2 days a week, I just know that even now when we spend to much time together we do each others heads in, also he relys on me a lot as he cant drive at the minute so it's mostly me taking him places or picking up his daughter at the weekend and sometimes I drop her home the next day or sometimes my OH mum leaves her home, I have said to him i cant really run him here and there when the baby is here.. there is a bus stop right outside our front. What's other peoples opinions would there OH do there head in if they didnt work for a year??