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To think my request at hotel wasn’t unreasonable?

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Chocowoka · 31/01/2020 12:12

In a nutshell a friend and I wanted to have a spa day. We found what looked like a beautiful hotel with great facilities and decided we’d like to try there.

The offer included and cost £95 each

Spa treatment 25 mins (either a foot scrub, facial or body scrub)
Full use of spa facilities for 4 hours
2 course lunch or afternoon tea

I asked if I could just have a massage as I have bad flare ups with my skin with many products so a scrub wouldn’t be ideal. I was told no... ok fair enough so I chose the foot scrub.

My friend wanted the lunch and I wanted the afternoon tea. When I told the girl what we wanted she said oh I’m afraid we can’t do that as they’re served in different restaurants so you’d have to eat in separate restaurants (in the same hotel) 🙄 I said, “Well I’m not expecting silver service. I’ll happily go the restaurant that mine would be served in and take the plate with my food on, to the restaurant that my friends in, so we can eat together?” 🙄

She went to ask someone and came back and said “We can’t do that I’m sorry”

I said, “Ok, we’ll just leave it then” and we going somewhere else and booked it.

Now I could have had the lunch and my friend could have had the afternoon tea. I felt on principle however that we were spending a lot of money there for a treat so why should we not get what we really want!?

The hotel offers room service and is a 5* hotel so I’m quite sure they could carry some from one restaurant to the next or allowed me to, because if day a hotel guest fancied afternoon tea does that mean they can’t have it in their room?

If a group of 6 friends went chances are they aren’t all going to want the same. So the hotel would still say no and lose custom potentially.

I just think for such an expensive few hours they could have been more accommodating.

OP posts:
CJsGoldfish · 31/01/2020 22:55

Also I do have severe dyslexia so are you taking the piss out of my disability now???
You knew very well that wasn't what she was doing at all. You just thought you'd add some extra drama and try and get some of the audience over to your side seeing as pretty much no one was there 🤣

You don't sound hard work at all. It's become the new comment for people who want to be part of the thread and think they are so clever
Claims like this are usually thrown out by those who suspect they may be perceived as having the relevant behaviour.🤣
Or wish to be part of the thread by showing how insightful and clever they are.
They usually aren't.
It really isn't hard to tell when a poster is hard work irl. People have been calling it out forever 🤷

Yeah but I don’t think there was any need for the other poster to be nasty and call OP ‘thick’
Lucky that's not what happened then

Porkeypine · 31/01/2020 23:18

@CJsGoldfish

Ehhh what you quoting me for? What you on about? How’s it not what happened? Of course it did 😳

spongejack · 01/02/2020 07:30

OP you sound a complete pain in the arse, you deliberately misinterpret things like @cstaff saying can't you read, she clearly meant you saw what was on offer and wanted to change it! Saying I've got severe dyslexia are you taking the piss out of my disability is fucking ridiculous, you know that wasn't the case!

You're one of these people that takes offence at everything! Uses their skin issue, dyslexia etc to stamp their feet and say but I should be allowed because of my issues. If your skin was that bad you'd get a massage package and wouldn't even think about it.

The spas day stated what was on offer, likely they've got more people able to do foot scrubs than they have able to massage! They may only offer an hour massage and think by giving you a 25min one you'll go away thinking it was poor and it would be if their routine was usually an hour,

As for taking your lunch into another room, you'd be sitting their saying now I want salt, do you have mayonnaise, can I have pepper blah blah they wouldn't have a personal waiter able to run bs k and forth.

I expect you're a trip advisor warrior?

Oulu · 02/02/2020 18:22

Are you that ignorant that you can ‘tell’ whether or not someone has dyslexia based on the texts?

Well yes, if you know anything about dyslexia you certainly can tell. The only way you could hide severe dyslexia would be to get someone to type for you.

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