To circulate details of bullying acts before I leave the WhatsApp group?

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DD has been bullied relentlessly by two girls for months (junior school). The school has dealt with it appallingly and made it worse. One of the mums is a "much loved" head of PTA, both mums have been told but just made the girls worse. The focus of all the fuss has been on DD as the victim rather than dealing with the girls as the bullies and they seem largely to be escaping public scrutiny.

We have taken DD out of school, waiting for a new school place to come up now. I know I should just rise above it all and concentrate on DD now but I'm so angry about it all. I have a complete list of all the physical and emotional acts of bullying that the girls have carried out over the months. WIBU to circulate that list on the class WhatsApp group before leaving the group?

I would write a message saying that you have removed your daughter from the school due to bullying that wasn’t dealt with by the school.

I’m not sure i’d leave the wa group to be honest, stay in quietly, don’t rock the boat and if another parent mentions it in the future.......

Yeah I would
I’d regret it but I would
I hope she is much happier moving forward OP and can make some nice new friends

My dd went through something similar..i also had to remove her from school...i live in a small village also but luckily the school dd attended was in a town and quite a long journey so when she left there was no worry of bumping into the bullies. However, when dd went to town on saturdays she would have seen her bullies and on these occassions the bullying escalated, to the point were dd no longer went anywhere near town. If your dd will never see these bullies again i would say go for it but if there is the slightest chance of her going to same school again at some point thing long and hard. Believe me, these spiteful bitches will remember everything and will be unlikely to change their bullying ways,especially with parents who can see no wrong in them. Im sorry you and dd have gone through this..it breaks you heart to see your child be the victim of bullying.

I’m with @Handsoffisback tbh and I’m pretty sure we could be friends 👌😂

I so would. You've nothing to lose as she's not going back. Silence is acceptance. What Peartreeparty wrote as a suggestion of how to word it is spot on. .

Have a lovely fiery red headed friend who found the big thug that was terrorising her tiny sweet year 7 son and threatened him in a newsagents. Her boy never had a moments trouble after that. Could have massively back fired but still !

What’s to stop you messaging the two mums involved? Just to explain this is the reason your DD is leaving and the effect it has had?

I would also approach any secondary school she goes to with the details to advise them in case the two bullies go there as well. The secondary school may well handle this better, but would be good to warn them.