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AIBU?

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to think that MNHQ shouldn't do this?

54 replies

punknarwhal · 30/01/2020 09:07

That they shouldn't edit our posts if they are going to post them on Facebook and they shouldn't post them on FB without an automated message to let us know that they have?

OP posts:
SerendipityJane · 30/01/2020 09:18

YABU. Their house. Their rules. Don't like it. Don't post.

TheDeep · 30/01/2020 09:22

It's their website, they can do what they like.

Nottobesniffedat · 30/01/2020 09:37

They post them on Facebook?

SerendipityJane · 30/01/2020 09:41

They post them on Facebook?

and Twitter.

Hoik · 30/01/2020 09:44

It's in the terms and conditions you sign up to when you join Mumsnet. MNHQ own all content on the site, including user content, and are free to do what they like with it.

Bluntness100 · 30/01/2020 09:45

YABU, it is not some confidential site. There are I think about sixteen million members, posting it on other sites makes little to no difference.

If you don't wish it in the public domain don't post it here.

onalongsabbatical · 30/01/2020 09:54

You signed up to it though.

WotchaTalkinBoutWillis · 30/01/2020 09:58

YABU, any posts started on here can end up on their FB or Twitter page.
Or Twitter's MN Madness (to be fair I don't think that's anything to do with MN though lol)
It's not like it doesn't say it's MN content on here as it does.

SoupDragon · 30/01/2020 10:00

That they shouldn't edit our posts if they are going to post them on Facebook

How are they editing them?

They can post them wherever they like so YABU about that but I'm curious about the editing.

Heismyopendoor · 30/01/2020 10:02

And instagram

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor · 30/01/2020 10:03

Wtf our posts go on FB and Twitter?!

Ijustwanttoretire · 30/01/2020 10:19

I didn't know that either - bit late now, but If I discover any of mine have been I will be off I'm afraid - fair enough if they want to but I think if they are going to do that they should message the OP to warn them!

Cohle · 30/01/2020 10:24

I agree OP. I would have unpleasantly surprised to find my post had been edited before being used by MNHQ without having had the courtesy of being notified first.

SoupDragon · 30/01/2020 10:27

I think you need to think very carefully about why you are happy to post on social media but at not happy for that stuff to be on social media. Mumsnet is not a private space! It is no different to Facebook/Twitter/Instagram

They have never hidden the fact that they use people's posts - it's in the T&C

SoupDragon · 30/01/2020 10:28

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Cohle · 30/01/2020 10:31

Yes but the OP is happy to post her own posts as she has written them on MN.

I wouldn't wouldn't want my post edited, which may fundamentally change the meaning or tone of the post, and then have it widely distributed without at least having the opportunity to OK the edits.

That's entirely different from just more widely disseminating OP's posts as they stood.

JosefKeller · 30/01/2020 10:34

YABU to be one of these posters who imagine the forum as a little bubble , safe and that no one in real life can read.

Who do they think MN readers are in the first place is anyone's guess.

Ellisandra · 30/01/2020 10:35

It’s part of the T&C, and I think it’s pretty predictable that they’d have to edit for those platforms.

I think they have a moral responsibility to not misrepresent a post through the editing choices. As long as they don’t do that - caveat poster!

onalongsabbatical · 30/01/2020 10:36

Mumsnet
Owns
The
Content.
You
Signed
Up
To
This.

SoupDragon · 30/01/2020 10:41

Yes but the OP is happy to post her own posts as she has written them on MN.

She said she expects to be notified.

Anyway, I was responding to the posters just before I posted who didn't want their stuff re-posted.

ElmStreet · 30/01/2020 11:17

If you're not paying for the product, you are the product.

LochJessMonster · 30/01/2020 11:20

In what context do they post them on social media?

JosefKeller · 30/01/2020 13:14

they post on social media to get interest and people to go on the forum, what else should they used posts for?

MN is a business, it's not a charity.

ActualHornist · 30/01/2020 13:23

Can you give an example of edited posts please?

LochJessMonster · 30/01/2020 13:28

Oh wow just looked them up on FB.
I had no idea they could have posted one of my threads on there!

I think they do need to make it more clear that that is a possibility, or at least let you know when they are going to do it.

I need to start making my username and posts more generic Blush

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