People did accuse the op of stealing and then a poster said it again even after the op explained about the staff taking it in turns to buy the bread.
People have accused op of not feeding her kids well even when she has posted sample weekly menus that show they eat well.
Overall a lot of people have been very mean and disbelieving and I'm surprised the op didn't snap sooner.
Just because lots on here can't shop cheaply doesn't mean it can't be done and done well. Anyone who has been forced to have a low budget knows tricks and tips and the op has said she enjoys being frugal and bargain hunting.
I don't get why so many think saving money but eating well is miserable. Don't most people have favourites and eat their liked but same foods anyway, so getting these cheaper and finding cheaper ways of cooking them is good.
How on earth is having a low food budget that's suits your family miserable?? I have said on threads before that I would never just hand over my money in huge proportions to the supermarket when I didn't need to.
So many people seem to think that it is a worthy thing to have a high food budget, saying it can't be done for less healthily, when it can be done for less and healthily too.
I'm frugal not as frugal as the op, but I also do frugal takeaways in my food budget and its still spend half what the average family of our size spends weekly. I make choices that I like, ie bean stew, pasta, egg dishes for my girls, jacket potatoes, frozen veg, cheap pulses and tinned fruit.
Frozen fruit and veg is more nutritious than most fresh as they are tinned or frozen so quickly. Not sprayed with chemicals and left to ripen after being picked too early.
People on this thread have been very rude and accusatory to the op.
But I wish more people would realise that some people do have time and make time to do this and some people do not have a choice anyway due to the wage regression and benefit situation in the UK.
Op well done for getting your food spend low. I'm not sure you can or should go lower.
Also lots of people mention hobbies on mumsnet, bargain hunting can be a great hobby, I know it's mine. It sounds like it's the Ops too. I have a lovely home and eat well on an income well under what most people, especially here on mumsnet consider to be OK.
Why should the op spend more on food when she doesn't need to and then not get to visit her dad abroad?