To think you don’t call your wife’s sister ‘sexy’?

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Came across a Facebook message DH had sent to my 10 years younger, and very attractive, sister. She had asked him a totally innocent question and he had responded starting with ‘hey, my sexy sister in law’. Then sent another message straight afterwards saying that he had forgotten to add a kiss.

I am quite pissed off about it (I don’t think he expected me to see the message but he had his messenger page open) whereas he has minimised it as ‘banter’. TBH if he’d referred to a female friend like that I’d have been less upset than I am about him referring to my own sister like that. She is a younger, slimmer version of me and I know he fancies her.

AIBU to think he’s crossed a line?

Yuck! YANBU.

I actually wouldn't want to stay married to someone who clearly had no respect for me

Really think about whether he makes you happy

I wouldn’t wish to stay married to a creep like this OP but it’s your choice. I’m guessing he leers over other women in front of you too, sounds the type.

Funny how much in the minority you are @PhoneLock.

What's that telling you

Your need to get personal tells me a lot about you @Sadiesnakes

Ew. Thats humiliating OP I feel for you. Would put me right off my DH if he did that.

they’ve always been jokey with each other

I was on your side at first but after you drip fed this tidbit out it sounds like this just might be how they talk

Your need to get personal tells me a lot about you @Sadiesnakes**

Does it?😂

Oh dear. So sorry op would be a deal breaker for me.