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To expect better customer service than this?

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starlight83x · 22/01/2020 18:10

I went to a convenience shop today during my lunch break (think co-op but it’s not, still quite a big company though) to pick up a meal deal and a few other bits for lunch. I hadn’t been to this one in particular before although I do go to one near where I live all the time.

I walked in and it was relatively quiet. When I approached the counter to pay I was served by a staff member who was a young lady (young 20’s I would say). She did not acknowledge me or say hello as she was in the middle of what I can only describe as a heated discussion with another staff member. It seemed as though she was complaining about something to her colleagues.

As she was scanning my items I asked her for a carrier bag, she didn’t acknowledge this. When she finished scanning the items, I again asked for a carrier bag but she was too busy talking to her colleague to hear me. Once I had paid, I again asked her for a carrier bag to which she said “oh sorry it’s been a stressful day”. I was then stood waiting for my receipt as she had forgotten to give it to me. At this point she was still talking to her colleague and then realised I was still stood waiting. She looked up and said to me “ok?” I said “yes please can I have my receipt?” to which she said “oh yes okay”.

She then decided to look through the receipt as she realised that I’d been charged extra for the meal deal. I had paid £6 instead of £3.50, not a massive deal just a tad bit annoying. (the drink I had chosen was in the meal deal section but not actually part of the deal). I appreciate it was nobody’s fault in this instance but I do believe had she been concentrating on the till when she was scanning the items (instead of talking to her colleague) then she would of picked up on this.

I got the impression from her that she thought it was my fault for picking up the wrong drink. When I pointed out that the drink was in the wrong section and it’s very confusing for customers she just shrugged her shoulders. She then asked me to choose another drink and that she would get her colleague to sort out the refund. I did decline at this point as I’d just had enough and wanted to leave. I really didn’t have the energy to wait around for her colleague to refund me and sort it all out especially since I had to be back in work for a certain time and needed to eat my lunch before then anyway.

What should of been an easy transaction actually turned into a stressful experience. I have worked in customer facing roles myself many years ago and imo a staff member should devote their attention when serving a customer. I have no issue with people chatting away with their colleagues but when it’s to the point they can’t hear anything the customer has said to them (3 times) then I think there is an issue. If she wanted to discuss (more so complain) to her colleague she should of done that in private or at least discretely (not so the whole bloody shop could hear). The mere fact that I had to ask for a carrier bag three times is I think what annoyed me the most.

If I had behaved that way in my last job I would have been pulled up on it. I appreciate we’re all human and every one has problems but surely they should be left at the door before coming into work? I don’t think customers should have to hear how stressful the day has been. I wouldn’t complain to my clients about my stresses so I do think it should be the same in any work place.

I promise I’m not one of these people that complains about everything! I think I’ve only made a complaint about one company before and that was because they lost a £300 deposit of mine.

So WIBU to make a complaint? Was she unprofessional? Imo this particular lady would hugely benefit from extra training in how to serve/deal with customers.

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Getitwright · 22/01/2020 18:26

I would have sorted it out there and then. Politely but firmly asking her to give me her full attention, and to sort her issue out after. I have on occasion done this, and it works. Stay polite, stay calm, but ask for the attention you need. It works in reverse as well. I did a bit of shop work after I finished my career. I loathed the phone zombies who would grunt at me when making a purchase, so just told them I would serve them once their important phone call was completed, so that mistakes weren’t made. I don’t do impolite people, and 99% of phone interactions aren’t emergencies.
Retrospective complaints are a bore, it’s all he said, she said after the event. Do it at the time. Preferably with an audience.

MilkTwoSugarsThanks · 22/01/2020 18:32

I went to a convenience shop today during my lunch break (think co-op but it’s not,

I really wouldn't bother. Either nothing will happen or you'll make someone's life a bit more shit.

Roselilly36 · 22/01/2020 18:38

The young person who served you may have started work around 6am, had rude customers to deal with, probably on min wage, not received sufficient training, new to role, etc. give them a break. Why make their life more difficult? If I only had this to worry about, I would feel truly blessed.

eeyore228 · 22/01/2020 18:41

I hope that isn’t the most stressful part of your day.

Chasingsquirrels · 22/01/2020 18:44

You picked up the wrong drink and paid the bill - not realising it was more due to no meal deal.
The assistant put what you'd chosen though the till, noticed that your items didn't come under the meal deal (albeit after you'd paid) and offered you the chance to change your items and get a refund.
It won't be down to her which drinks are displayed where and it's up to you to check what you are buying.
If you don't like the service you receive tell them at the time and / or use a different shop.

DifficultPifcultLemonDifficult · 22/01/2020 18:45

Shop assistants are human too. They make mistakes, sometimes come across as rude, sometimes need a rant about someone at an inconvenient time.

Just get on with your life and stop trying to get someone in trouble for having the nerve to be distracted for 2 minutes of your life.

ruby2020 · 22/01/2020 18:46

"Turned into a stressful experience"

Oh come on OP, if that's what you consider stressful you really need to grow a thicker skin.

First world problems much?

DesLynamsMoustache · 22/01/2020 18:46

It seems odd for something so minor to be occupying so much headspace!

PleasantVille · 22/01/2020 18:49

I know you wanted to get on your way but I would have made a complaint at the time. The excuses above about starting at 6am etc are why customers service in England is often so poor.

I've worked in retail, I know it can be frustrating but thats no excuse. The drink thing is annoying and isn't anyone's fault but the way I read it the assistant didn't realise when she was ringing it through which maybe she would if she hadn't been distracted.

Thestrangestthing · 22/01/2020 18:50

Good god thats some size of post for something not that important.

It wasnt her fault the drinks aren't in the right place, she only works there. She probably doesn't even know which drinks are in the meal deal until the till flags it up.

spongejack · 22/01/2020 18:51

If that's a stressful experience you must lead a very charmed life! Jesus you've no idea what stress is!

adaline · 22/01/2020 18:52

I got the impression from her that she thought it was my fault for picking up the wrong drink.

Why wouldn't that be your fault? Confused

The80sweregreat · 22/01/2020 18:54

I think your being flamed here but I agree that it was annoying for you.
Even if she was new, the induction period would have pointed out that the customer must come first and she should have given you her full attention. I know retail can be a horrible job and she may have had a long and difficult shift but you could have been a secret shopper for all she knew!
It was poor customer service and I can under why you were upset by it all.
I'm so polite to anyone who works in retail or in hospitality , but sometimes the employees are not and make you feel like an inconvenience.
I would have sucked it up myself but the next customer she ignores may not be as understanding and she could end up in trouble.

OrangeLindt · 22/01/2020 19:02

Wow is this all you have to complain about OP?

popcornpaws · 22/01/2020 19:11

No don’t complain, and take your own bag next time!

starlight83x · 22/01/2020 19:17

Absolutely not trying to get her into trouble. As I said in my op I do think she would benefit from some extra training especially if she is this way with other customers but obviously that won't happen unless a customer raises a complaint/gives feedback.

I think some posters are jumping on the "stressful" comment a bit too much. What I meant by that is that it should have taken me two minutes to buy a sandwich but took longer because she was faffing around and couldn't concentrate. I'm certainly not going to be crying about it tonight 

I did also say in my op that the drink mix up wasn't anyone's fault but as @PleasantVille has kindly pointed out she would have noticed it on the till if she had been concentrating on what she was doing. It was on the receipt so it would have definitely flagged up on the till after she'd scanned everything. The drink in itself is not the issue, but I do think having to ask someone for something three times because their too busy chatting is beyond ridiculous. By all means, she should have a whinge (we all do especially about work) but I do think she should have waited until she'd finished serving me. If she was able to multi task and do both - fine, but that just wasn't the case.

I think the excuses of being on min wage and being up at 6am are a stretch. I also appreciate that other customers might have rude to her during the day, but I wasn't one of them.

Actually, @adaline I don't think it was my fault. But it wasn't hers either. The drinks (not just one but a whole stack) had been put in the meal deal section away from all the other snacks and drinks so I think anyone would think it was a part of the deal.

I do agree though that I should have said something at the time and just asked her for her attention to get it over with. I'm not a very confrontational person so felt uncomfortable saying something!

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starlight83x · 22/01/2020 19:18

I will definitely do that @popcornpaws and it's cheaper too lol

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RunForBurritos · 22/01/2020 19:18

How does anyone have the time to wrote a long, detailed post about THIS ?

I think that she didn't give you great service, but Jesus, I'd have forgotten about it all after five minutes.
Sounds like if she hadn't said anything you'd have paid extra.

rosamacrose · 22/01/2020 19:19

Now that you've un-burdened yourself I would let it go. There is nothing to be gained.

(Actually, you sound like someone that I used to work with. She considered herself a customer service expert, what with all her customer facing experience and all. She was a serial complainer and in receipt of many vouchers from retailersracingtoclosethecomplaintandmeettargets retailers grateful for the feedback.
Grin )

Justcallmebebes · 22/01/2020 19:19

Yabvvu to not take your own bag!

Traffy · 22/01/2020 19:19

You sound like hard work.

StrawberrySquash · 22/01/2020 19:20

I do have sympathy for the drinks in the wrong place. Head office carefully plan a promotion and layout and then shit point of sale buggers it up for the customer!

lovebeingmum · 22/01/2020 19:21

I’m guessing it has taken more time typing out all tour posts on this than it will have to just choose another drink ...

starlight83x · 22/01/2020 19:21

I can only apologise for the lengthy thread but thought it was important to give all the details. Had I just posted "AIBU to expect better customer service?" I would have been asked for more details. Can't win on here sometimes!

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starlight83x · 22/01/2020 19:24

Why are people focusing on the drink so much? Confused annoying yes but that wasn't even the issue. The fact I had to ask for something three times was. Her attitude quite frankly was shit, she was so uninterested. Yes retail jobs suck and are low paid but if people don't want to do them then don't take the job. Let someone else (who would be better at it) do it then.

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