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To expect better customer service than this?

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starlight83x · 22/01/2020 18:10

I went to a convenience shop today during my lunch break (think co-op but it’s not, still quite a big company though) to pick up a meal deal and a few other bits for lunch. I hadn’t been to this one in particular before although I do go to one near where I live all the time.

I walked in and it was relatively quiet. When I approached the counter to pay I was served by a staff member who was a young lady (young 20’s I would say). She did not acknowledge me or say hello as she was in the middle of what I can only describe as a heated discussion with another staff member. It seemed as though she was complaining about something to her colleagues.

As she was scanning my items I asked her for a carrier bag, she didn’t acknowledge this. When she finished scanning the items, I again asked for a carrier bag but she was too busy talking to her colleague to hear me. Once I had paid, I again asked her for a carrier bag to which she said “oh sorry it’s been a stressful day”. I was then stood waiting for my receipt as she had forgotten to give it to me. At this point she was still talking to her colleague and then realised I was still stood waiting. She looked up and said to me “ok?” I said “yes please can I have my receipt?” to which she said “oh yes okay”.

She then decided to look through the receipt as she realised that I’d been charged extra for the meal deal. I had paid £6 instead of £3.50, not a massive deal just a tad bit annoying. (the drink I had chosen was in the meal deal section but not actually part of the deal). I appreciate it was nobody’s fault in this instance but I do believe had she been concentrating on the till when she was scanning the items (instead of talking to her colleague) then she would of picked up on this.

I got the impression from her that she thought it was my fault for picking up the wrong drink. When I pointed out that the drink was in the wrong section and it’s very confusing for customers she just shrugged her shoulders. She then asked me to choose another drink and that she would get her colleague to sort out the refund. I did decline at this point as I’d just had enough and wanted to leave. I really didn’t have the energy to wait around for her colleague to refund me and sort it all out especially since I had to be back in work for a certain time and needed to eat my lunch before then anyway.

What should of been an easy transaction actually turned into a stressful experience. I have worked in customer facing roles myself many years ago and imo a staff member should devote their attention when serving a customer. I have no issue with people chatting away with their colleagues but when it’s to the point they can’t hear anything the customer has said to them (3 times) then I think there is an issue. If she wanted to discuss (more so complain) to her colleague she should of done that in private or at least discretely (not so the whole bloody shop could hear). The mere fact that I had to ask for a carrier bag three times is I think what annoyed me the most.

If I had behaved that way in my last job I would have been pulled up on it. I appreciate we’re all human and every one has problems but surely they should be left at the door before coming into work? I don’t think customers should have to hear how stressful the day has been. I wouldn’t complain to my clients about my stresses so I do think it should be the same in any work place.

I promise I’m not one of these people that complains about everything! I think I’ve only made a complaint about one company before and that was because they lost a £300 deposit of mine.

So WIBU to make a complaint? Was she unprofessional? Imo this particular lady would hugely benefit from extra training in how to serve/deal with customers.

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SirGawain · 22/01/2020 20:48

Cut her some slack OP, she was having a bad day and you have no idea what is going on in her life>

ShinyMe · 22/01/2020 20:48

Being argumentative and rude to posters is really helping your case OP. Yes, we can definitely all believe that you were entirely in the right and were entirely polite and pleasant to the distracted assistant.

spongejack · 22/01/2020 20:52

I paid by card @adaline and it didn't say how much on the card machine. I have no idea why.

That's bullshit if ever I heard it!

Get a life OP you've spent to much time whinging about a "stressful event, that wasn't stressful at all".

spongejack · 22/01/2020 20:53

Being argumentative and rude to posters is really helping your case OP. Yes, we can definitely all believe that you were entirely in the right and were entirely polite and pleasant to the distracted assistant.

^^this!

mrsbyers · 22/01/2020 20:55

Stressful ? I want your life

Greyhound22 · 22/01/2020 20:55

I agree with you OP. I had it in Aldi the other day - young man on the till having jokey banter with the man on the next till. Didn't even get acknowledgement that I existed apart from saying the amount I owed and throwing the receipt at me.

But on MN if someone is on minimum wage they are allowed to talk to people like shit, not do their job properly etc etc which is absolute bollocks. I have done plenty of these jobs in my time and have never behaved to customers like this.

It's the same everywhere. I get utterly frustrated at ordering food etc and having to go back because the order is wrong. Always because the person serving was talking or pissing about at the same time.

TSSDNCOP · 22/01/2020 20:55

Well no it wasn't great service, but it's a convenience store below the Co-op. Feel sad that having a Barney about a colleague was likely the high excitement of her day.

You meanwhile still have it stuck in your teeth at dinner time which suggests you really, really need to let it go.

toomanyleggings · 22/01/2020 20:56

Honestly? It's not a very well paid job. Why make someone's life more miserable than it has to be? Have you ever read an 'Inspector Calls'?

starlight83x · 22/01/2020 20:58

I was responding to the posters who had been rude and patronising towards me @Sparkle2020. Or is it only okay when they do it? Mumsnet hypocrisy at its finest.

Why would I make that up? @spongejackConfused

Yes I appreciate my "experience" wasn't awful and the biggest crime in the world but the posters who are saying "why did you post this" or "give this so much headspace" surely that should apply to most of the threads on here?

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starlight83x · 22/01/2020 20:59

I've already said (bloody ages ago) that I wasn't going to complain about her, but I guess half of you didn't bother to read that part.

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adaline · 22/01/2020 21:02

Why would I make that up?

Because you can't pay by card without seeing the amount on the card reader first - it's just not possible!

If you're paying by contactless you can't tap your card on without the amount being keyed in, and if you're putting in your pin, they can't ask you for your pin and then key in the amount after 😂 else they could charge people hundreds!

What you mean is you didn't notice what you were being charged because you were pissed off with how you were being treated but you don't want to admit you made a mistake!

starlight83x · 22/01/2020 21:03

Thank you @Greyhound22, honestly all a bunch of bloody hypocrites on this thread.

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Ontheboardwalk · 22/01/2020 21:04

Think co-op but it’s not why name co-op then? It’s nowt to do with them.

Why not just name the actual shop you were in?? Very bizarre

starlight83x · 22/01/2020 21:04

I didn't make a mistake though did I? She didn't notice the error because she was too busy chatting away.

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starlight83x · 22/01/2020 21:05

Incase I did complain about her @Ontheboardwalk? What's so odd about that? Confused

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adaline · 22/01/2020 21:07

Of course you made a mistake.

When you're paying you have a responsibility to make sure you're being charged correctly.
You didn't notice you'd picked the wrong drink so you assumed it would go through as part of the meal deal and therefore the price would be £3 or whatever.

So you therefore didn't see the need to check what you were paying and only noticed when she did. You were already annoyed with her because of her attitude earlier in the transaction so it was easier to blame this on her as well.

IHaveBrilloHair · 22/01/2020 21:08

The most stressful part of my day has been reading this trivial nonsense.
Get a bloody grip.

spongejack · 22/01/2020 21:08

You need to clearer with your food ordering instructions @Greyhound22 I never have an issue!

Greyhound22 · 22/01/2020 21:10

@spongejack bully for you.

spongejack · 22/01/2020 21:11

Why would I make that up? @spongejack**

To gain sympathy for your oh so stressful
buying of a sandwich....

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MrsLinManuelMiranda · 22/01/2020 21:13

The total didn't show @MrsLinManuelMiranda so I had no way of knowing until I'd been given the receipt*
It is customary for cashiers to tell you the total cost of your order befiore you pay. If as you say the cashier was too rude to tell you, surely you would ask how much the bill was before you blindly use your card.

Pukkatea · 22/01/2020 21:14

I absolutely do not believe you that she didn't either say the total out loud or it be automatically on or typed into the card payment machine. That doesn't happen in any shop anywhere ever.

As people have said, it's nice when cashiers sometimes pick up that you meant to buy a meal deal but it isn't a required part of service. I think you were annoyed at not having received the bag and didn't pay attention (fyi when I worked at the actual coop, we were told to avoid giving out bags as much as we possibly could, and that was 10 years before our current war on plastic)

IHaveBrilloHair · 22/01/2020 21:15

What a charmer you are!

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