Ex H has totally ghosted me after 20 years of marriage. Cut me dead off all social media, phone, email etc. I suspect OW involvement in this even before we separated, he just walked out leaving a ton of debt behind and me to sort the mess out while he had a very nice new life. I lost my home that I owned long before I met him because of the debt he left and had to downsize many miles away.
We move in a very small social circles that surround our religion which means we often run into each other.
I was prepared to remain friends but he's having none of it.
So despite this he expects me to be friendly to him in front of all our friends whenever our paths cross and act like nothing happened so he doesn't lose face.
I refuse to talk to him and couldn't care less if he loses face because he is a prick and shuns me at all other times and I don't see why I should play his game.
AIBU?