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to think a man who made a bomb is NOT just an "angry Romeo"

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PotholeParadise · 17/01/2020 10:35

The local newspaper has this as the front page. If you can't see it, it says:

Angry Romeo Turns Vacuum Cleaner Into A Bomb

If this man had threatened anyone else other than an ex-partner with a homemade bomb, how would it be reported? Would people be reacting to it with laugh-reactions on facebook?

In fact, what would the headline have been if this man wasn't white? He tried to make a bomb, for crying out loud.

Full article here: www.swindonadvertiser.co.uk/news/18167550.angry-romeo-used-fireworks-vacuum-cleaner-build-bomb/

to think a man who made a bomb is NOT just an "angry Romeo"
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PotholeParadise · 17/01/2020 10:36

clicky link

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thejollyroger · 17/01/2020 10:37

God. That is shocking.

P1nkHeartLovesCake · 17/01/2020 10:37

He is not a Romeo, his an unhinged individual.

GiveHerHellFromUs · 17/01/2020 10:37

It's so irresponsible of the newspaper to report it in that way!

SachaStark · 17/01/2020 10:38

This is the kind of example that makes me incredulous when people claim that white male privilege doesn’t exist Hmm

PotholeParadise · 17/01/2020 10:39

Where is the gravity in that headline? Where is the disapproval?

Where is the message to other men that such behaviour is totally unacceptable?

Nowhere, that's where.

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corythatwas · 17/01/2020 10:39

YYY to everything that has already been said about male white privilege.

PlanDeRaccordement · 17/01/2020 10:56

How is it an example of white male privilege versus male privilege?

GiveHerHellFromUs · 17/01/2020 10:57

@PlanDeRaccordement just consider what the headline would say if he was Asian

PotholeParadise · 17/01/2020 10:59

Do you honestly think that headline would have accompanied a picture of an Asian defendant walking into court on charges of making an improvised explosive device?

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PotholeParadise · 17/01/2020 11:02

By the way, if you google this man's name and read earlier reports from the same newspaper, he has been putting his ex-partner through hell since 2016. So far he has threatened to behead her, and held a knife to her throat in front of their children.

But they still saw fit to call him a Romeo about the current charges.

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PotholeParadise · 17/01/2020 11:08

Actually, it doesn't say the children saw him holding the knife to her throat. But the point stands.

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misspiggy19 · 17/01/2020 11:09

In fact, what would the headline have been if this man wasn't white?

^He would have been labelled a dangerous terrorist without a doubt

RuffleCrow · 17/01/2020 11:11

Is it worth a complaint to whatever regulating body deals with the press?

2020cominatcha · 17/01/2020 11:11

Yy @misspiggy19. The article would gave included a list of other terrorist attacks in the UK as well, along with photos of the perpetrators.

PlanDeRaccordement · 17/01/2020 11:12

But thinking what it might say “if” the man were nonwhite is purely speculation? If it were an Asian man who built a bomb to kill an ex partner, I have no idea what they’d choose as a headline.

I agree it’s male privilege because we see they did chose Romeo and published it like that. Horrible choice they made.

But I don’t see how we can say it’s white male privilege unless there was a published U.K. headline showing a nonwhite man in similar circumstances treated differently?

HeyDuggeesCakeBadge · 17/01/2020 11:15

Come on plan, we all know what would happen if this guy was non white. It is just ignorance to claim otherwise.

GiveHerHellFromUs · 17/01/2020 11:19

You can't possibly hazard a guess at what they'd print if an Asian man got caught with a homemade bomb? Ok, @PlanDeRaccordement. We believe you.

PlanDeRaccordement · 17/01/2020 11:19

Ugh. What a horrible man.
The headline should say “Man Attempts Murder of Partner with IED”

PlanDeRaccordement · 17/01/2020 11:21

You can't possibly hazard a guess at what they'd print if an Asian man got caught with a homemade bomb? Ok, @PlanDeRaccordement. We believe you.

No, I cannot. But I see many are putting on their “if I were a racist” hats and coming up with some inflammatory speculations about terrorists and terrorism.

cheesydoesit · 17/01/2020 11:21

YANBU. It's bloody depressing yet not surprising. If I had it in me I might make a book of inappropriate reporting of DV just so that I could throw it at anyone that says misogyny doesn't exist, I can think of at least ten instances of the top of my head. No one fucking cares though.

PotholeParadise · 17/01/2020 11:25

Plan just stop it. Fine. You think it's only male privilege. Fine.

Arguing about whether white people actually have it better is not actually a constructive use of data when violence against women has, yet again, been minimised in the press. So what should be done about it?

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PotholeParadise · 17/01/2020 11:35

RuffleCrow

Sounds like an idea. Except, does the headline break any rules or guidelines?

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YasssKween · 17/01/2020 11:58

Ugh I hate this shit. IMO would have been called "spurned lover" or "bunny boiler" if it was a woman - YES that is speculation on my part only based on my own experience of working in the media.

Kelsoooo · 17/01/2020 12:33

I've just tweeted them. That's appalling.