me and sil have been looking after dps and hers little cousin (4) between us for the school holidays (im not getting any money for this by the way..though she is}.Anyway i have an appoinment with a lady at the jobcentre at 3.30pm to see if i am eligable for a bit of help towards childcare when i start college, this is my day to have the little boy.I rang her to ask if i could drop him off at 3 at hers and she have him for the 2 hours until his mum gets home..... she then said she had to go somewhere at that time so i asked if she could meet me as where i am going is acroos the road from where she is going. so then she said she wasnt going there really she was going to such a place...... sorry for the ramble but whenever she has needed my help i have been there to help. tell me all to shut my bloody moaning if you like