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AIBU - to want to know your spooky stories

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LouH1981 · 02/01/2020 18:51

So, similar to a fellow mumsnetter, I too am laid up in bed, I have an infection post partum so feeling a bit rubbish and would really love to hear about the spookiest unexplained things that have happened to you.
I’m always fascinated by this especially from people who are skeptics and something has genuinely taken them aback.

I’ll start...just moved in to our new (to us) house (about 100 years old) and DS was about 6 weeks old. Middle of the night and I was changing him in the spare room on a changing table. Heard a voice ask if I was alright. I’d left DH deep asleep in our room and although it didn’t sound like his voice I assumed it was him and answered ‘yes fine’. Returned seconds later expecting him to be awake but he was still asleep.
A few weeks later, my mum mentioned while our shopping that she thought our house was a bit spooky. And when I asked why, she said that while she was trying to get to sleep in the other spare room she heard a voice gently ask her if she was alright. She said she just hid under the duvet!
Freaked me out but has never happened again...

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MsChnandlerBong · 04/01/2020 23:33

Have told this before on MN, only repeating as I saw someone up thread had asked about Jamaica Inn. Settle in, its long.

We used to live in South Devon. I'd always wanted to go to Jamaica Inn. So we went. Fuck me, what a let down. If you've been, you'll know. The tiny snug pub bit is very olde worlde, if empty. The back is a massive built-on conservatory with a 1970s swirly carpet and emergency chairs. It's a big disappointment. The hotel room itself was in the newly built extension, like a premier inn, nice and clean, job done. We were gutted!

Family heard we had been, bought us a gift of meal and night's stay. Yay. We went. The room was in the pub itself, not the premier inn extension. We had our meal in the empty pub and went to the room, door to upstairs was behind the bar (in case you are checking!). Room had 4 poster bed blah blah. Went to sleep. Woke up to go loo, roughly 3 am, somebody was in the bathroom as light on and door shut. Ok it's husband. Sat on bed, half asleep, waiting. Realised husband is in bed. Got up assuming somebody has left light on. Go in bathroom, empty, no probs clearly light just left on. Shut door, pee, light turns off, tap turns on, the hot tap, absolutely steaming hot water pouring out. Jump up, turn it off, shout husband. MASSIVE bang, assume it's husband falling out of bed. He bursts through door saying WHAT THE FUCK. The bang was the room door belting open. We close all the doors, get in bed, convince ourselves we are pissed (Neither of us were drunk) or going crazy. Fall asleep. Don't know how much later we are woken by crying. It was literally the sound of a child crying. We both wake up looking around. It stops. Cheap vase on window sill literally slides off, smashes on floor.

We didn't sleep the rest of that night. Other stuff happened but so minor, scuttling noises, crying, banging. We stayed awake until it came light and left. Never been back since. For context we are both staunch atheists.

SmellMySmellbow · 04/01/2020 23:37

@ChristmasMistletoe1234 I'm going to fire out a load of questions all at once - I won't take offence if you ignore!
Is there a limit to how far you can go? What's the furthest you have been? Can you go up and up into the sky? Do you have to travel back or can you 'snap' back? Have you used it to spy on anyone? (Sorry, got to ask!) What's the longest you've done it for, ie can you be gone hours or is it minutes? Do you feel like you have a body when you are travelling, like can you move an invisible head to turn to look at stuff, or can you see your body floating? Or is it more like just a floating visual?

Calledyoulastnightfromglasgow · 04/01/2020 23:43

I often wonder what sceptics makes of these threads. Very often you read on MN a flat “there is no such thing as ghosts”.

They just read these threads thinking we are all quite mad

pallisers · 04/01/2020 23:45

Something got into bed with us in the night and when I woke up there was blood on the pillow!

bedbugs??? :) I'd prefer an entire ghostly roman legion and a screaming demon tbh.

ChristmasMistletoe1234 · 04/01/2020 23:47

As far as I know there isn't a limit, I've been to space before. When I'm in my house it looks a little different. I went out my landing window and the grass outside looked so lush and a darker green. In reality the grass isn't in great condition. I enjoy flying over villages and towns.

I have floated gently back into my body and I have snapped back. I have seen my husband in the kitchen but he looked a little different. I haven't intentionally spied on anyone. I have looked back and seen myself in bed sleeping.

It tends to be minutes at a time rather than hours, I'd say the longest I've done it for is 15 minutes at a time.

I feel like a ghost. I've never looked st my hands or anything while doing it so I'm not sure what I look like. I don't walk, I will myself to float forward when I wander around. And will myself to walk through the windows.

For a few months I couldn't get out of my body. I got the fear and worried I'd see demons and stuff. But I just had to relax and trust I would be OK and I started managing again.

ChristmasMistletoe1234 · 04/01/2020 23:47

@SmellMySmellbow the above post answers your questions I hope 😊😊

SmellMySmellbow · 04/01/2020 23:54

@ChristmasMistletoe1234 thank you so much! Next time you do it, see if you can 'see' yourself, to satisfy my curiosity Grin I'd be too scared to try. Had sleep paralysis once and auditory hallucinated my husband thumping up the stairs, opening the bedroom door and standing next to the bed but forced my body to move and was home alone. But that was in a state of my body being asleep and my mind waking up. It sounds like a similar state for the astral projection, so I'd be scared to get sleep paralysis instead (it's horrid).

TiddyTid · 05/01/2020 00:03

We have a ghost. He wasn't very welcoming at first 😞

toastytea · 05/01/2020 00:10

I get so so scared reading these threads but can't help myself! Surely your story isn't true OP? I'd be moving house.

FruitcakeOfHate · 05/01/2020 00:17

Holy shit, Tidd.

FruitcakeOfHate · 05/01/2020 00:21

K, all the 'surely you'd move out' people, get real! How many people really have the money, just sitting there, to up and permanently leave their home - pay for hotels or AirB&Bs, deposits, breaking your tenancy agreement, selling your house and paying mortgage penalties if they apply, pay solicitor's fees and such? I mean, really? What if you have family members still in school who need to stay in the area, or your job is walking distance, or you have a disabled child or care for a family member and you need to stay in an area with low housing supply?

It's not always straight forward.

Same with, 'I'd leave my job and never go back'. Yeah, sure, great if you don't need to work to survive.

ChristmasMistletoe1234 · 05/01/2020 00:24

@SmellMySmellbow I can sometimes hear thumps just before I go astral. I've had sleep paralysis before and seen demons but I told myself they weren't real and shot into a lucid dream. I've never seen anything like that in the astral. The astral feels very real. I've read that the demons you see in sleep paralysis are the darker side of yourself that you haven't yet dealt with. Not sure how true that is. But then not a lot of any of this is backed by science!

Muminneedofadvicelol · 05/01/2020 00:29

@PriscillaTheHun that freaked me out reading that. Have you ever looked up reviews on trip advisor to see if anyone else has had a similar experience. Well done for last ing as long as you did.

Mine is probably just because I was going through a stressful time, lack of sleep etc. I was lying in bed and I heard someone say my name. It honestly sounded like my gran who had died a couple of months prior. I hid my head under the covers and told myself to get to sleep. About a few minutes later, I felt a feeling going down my back (I was lying face down). It was honestly like a hand going down my back from the top of my spine to the bottom. I remember just feeling a shudder and totally switching off. Getting goosebumps thinking about it.

Another was when I heard strange noises in bed and when I went to get up, I was completely paralysed. I could not move at all. Apparently that is called sleep paralysis. It was so weird though.

Andromeida59 · 05/01/2020 01:24

I've had a few, can someone post the disco story? I'd love to read that again.

The night my Dad died, I dreamt of a Monty Python sketch that I used to perform for him when I was little. I remember waking up and thinking that I had to tell him. I didn't find out till later that he'd passed during the night.

Similar thing with my Mum. The night before she died, I dreamt of the Who song, "I'm free". We'd had a horrendous relationship but she'd been ill for a while but had always come through.

Before my Mum died, we lived together with her partner in his house. They were always fighting and it was a really destructive relationship. On my way home from school, I was walking down the path and I saw her in the window, shaking her head at me and pointing to the back of the house. I took this to mean that I should go to my Nan's who lived behind us. I arrived at my Nan's and explained what had happened and why I was there, only to be told that my mum had been taken to hospital in the early afternoon because she tried to kill herself.

My darling cat died a few years ago. She was only two and I was devastated. When we brought her ashes home, we heard a cat scratching on the scratching post but our other cat was nowhere near it. Our other cat also started meowing like she would to her sibling.
Occasionally, I feel her jump on the bed as does my partner. We have two cats now but this has happened when there are no cats in the room. She was quite a large cat and very distinctive.

KevinsCarter · 05/01/2020 01:45

I wonder, @MsChnandlerBong whether if it was a gift experience thing and the staff rigged it all up.
Sorry. I've been reading The secret of moon castle to DD.

LilQueenie · 05/01/2020 02:18

I was going through a lot of extreme pain and the doctors took no notice of it despite having some very serious symptoms. After the best part of a year I was taken into hospital as an emergency case and as a result they finally did the scan I wanted. they found a mass and I had to see an oncologist due to symptoms. I as sent home for a week before surgery being told they may remove my left ovary. I was laying in bed and worrying and having doubts due to being ignored for so long. It was then i decided to ask my spirit guide if they would really be removing that left ovary. I had heard my guide a couple times before but didn't actually expect to hear an answer. Anyway I heard plain as day 'No they will take the other one! I actually started to think it was going to be some sort of medical accident where they take out the wrong organ by mistake. I also sort of seen a dark cloudy shadow to my bottom left of my body which I had seen before on others. till this point they always found out later that is where they had a cancer. Its hard to describe but its like seeing normally but then with a clear plastic on top with the image like on the projectors you get in schools. I told no one about any of this.

After the surgery the doctor came round and told me he had to take out my right ovary! So what my guide said did happen. also they found a benign tumour in my bowel. exactly where I saw the cloudy part. I often wonder if it really as benign as they did remove it all but because they also lost my blood results and x rays repeatedly before telling me I should take my gp practice to court for ignoring me before.

LouH1981 · 05/01/2020 06:04

@FruitcakeOfHate Wow, it sounds fascinating. So how far do you go? What is the passage of time like? For example can you leave for what feels like 5 mins but when you wake it’s been an hour? Are you mentally knackered when your body wakes?
(Sorry for all the questions!)

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LouH1981 · 05/01/2020 06:26

@TiddyTid omg! Shock

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LouH1981 · 05/01/2020 06:32

@toastytea Absolutely true, I promise. I think the only reason I’m not too weirded out by it was because at the time I thought it was my husband and then it was a few weeks later when my mum told me what had happened to her and by then enough time without anything else happening had passed.
Don’t get me wrong, I leg it up the stairs if I’m in the dark and I don’t walk through a room without a light on! I did ‘ask’ my Dad tell anyone who might be there to leave me alone so maybe he’s cracked it for me, bless him.
Trust me, if much else ever kicks off we’d be out of there. My son is 4 now and never a sniff (thank goodness) of anything from him.

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LouH1981 · 05/01/2020 06:40

@ChristmasMistletoe1234 That’s interesting about the sleep paralysis and the demons! Thankfully, I haven’t had it for a while but the worst one was when one demon ‘threw’ me down the stairs. I wonder what that says about me using the theory you read?! I can still remember the sensation now.

Interestingly, if I do get it these days, I get more angry than scared and tend to end up telling them where to go and concentrate on waking myself up. That is the most frustrating part, trying your best to thrash around and shout to wake your body up and it doesn’t work. I would always expect my husband to wake up with all the screaming but he never did because I was never making any noise.,

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motortroll · 05/01/2020 07:18

The house in the Beaulieu estate when my step daughter was young. Probably 7/8. We were looking through the house and looked through one of the rooms. As we left the room my husband and I were wondering something about it (I forget what) and dsd said "why didn't you ask the lady in the grey dress?" We thought she meant one if the people in "character" wearing period costume who were in the house but there were none in that room. She insisted there was a lady by the window in a long grey dress.

When we got home we did some reading. Apparently it's considered to be one if the most haunted sites in the uk with several reports of a lady in blue/grey. Example article attached!

AIBU - to want to know your spooky stories
Rubyupbeat · 05/01/2020 07:36

Following and freaking out 😱Shock

Shebertherbert · 05/01/2020 07:55

I briefly worked the nightshift in an old peoples home. An old victorian manor house type building. Everyone who worked there at night had some sort of a ghostly encounter.
At night there were only two staff. We had to do room checks every two hours. The residents would be asleep upstairs, most had mobility issues. We would regularly hear footsteps and conversations. Conversations that would fall silent when you entered the room. The back door had a main lock plus several bolts. At the start of a shift we checked all the residents were there and locked up. Three times on (different shifts) I found the door wide open during the night.

Once I was looking in a cupboard then from behind me it I could feel someone lean against me and whisper in my ear. It felt like a breath against my skin. When I turned around there was noone there.

I was in the kitchen one night when I heard loud banging and what sounded like heavy furniture being dragged a cross the floor in the room upstairs. It went on for a few minutes. I thought it was my collegue and when I headed off to see what she was doing. I bumped into her in the corridor and she asked what I had been doing upstairs. She had been in another room around the corner and heard it too. We went upstairs to investigate. The room was fine nothing had been moved. We did room checks on all the residents. They were all alseep except for one and she told us off for making so much noise and banging around we woke her up. (She used a zimmer frame. So I doubt she had been moving furniture.)
I never saw anything. But several other people saw shadowy figures. They all had a story to tell. The place as closed down now. Over the years theres been talk of turning it into a hotel.

EerieSilence · 05/01/2020 08:46

Over a year ago I went to one of those paranormal lockdown experiences in a manor which has been know to host an army of different ghosts from different centuries, including the Devil.
I am very much a sceptic but the experience left me with more questions about the paranormal than I had before.
At the beginning we all sat down on the ground in a complete darkness holding hands and the investigator started asking for the ghosts to reveal themselves. Suddenly the girl beside me literally flew forward, her hand forcefully ripped off mine as I held it. There was nobody beside her but she claimed something pushed her from behind. At the same time I felt a really bad chill and I had so many layers on I was like an Eskimo.
They were using Kinect with the tablet to see anything moving (it shows up as a sticky figure on the display) and we saw a small childlike figure jumping up and down on the bed and few other figures moving around and even waving at us.
In the room where the devil escaped from after his identity was revealed, we sat down at the table and the door suddenly opened in the middle of the session where the investigator asked for the devil to appear. The door was very heavy and impossible to open by itself and there was nobody around.
On the third floor there were rooms which housed mentally ill patients, nuns, orphans and members and guests of the family throughout the history of the manor. Some rooms are permanently closed and locked because they are dangerous to be in due to unstable floor, nothing woo about it. We once again gathered together and asked for a sign of other entities. Suddenly someone started banging at the door from behind one of the locked room. In the darkness I suddenly felt someone walking in front me and smelled this awfully strong musty smell of an old and unwashed jacket. All the men in the group were pretty young and very clean and I hadn’t got the smell off anyone else throughout the whole night, before or after that. The temperature was constantly dropping throughout our visit to that particular floor and other people also reported feeling a presence close to them.
I didn’t do the ouija board as I didn’t feel comfortable with that but those who did had some strong responses.
Strangely, I never once felt afraid during the whole experience or afterwards. Would highly recommend the experience.

Katiet123 · 05/01/2020 08:59

@Meggie2008 that sounds like the goosebumps I had! That was the tour group I went with, I wanted to go to the cemetery but after telling the guide what I felt she asked me not to go!