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About Prozac (Fluoxetine) and Fags?!

105 replies

FagAsh · 01/01/2020 11:08

I am a big stinky old smoker. I’ve never quit for more than 2 years. I smoke about 6 a day and love every one. Honestly it’s really pathetic

Anyyyyway, I was prescribing Prozac for severe PMT (PMDD)

And within a week; I’ve just stopped being remotely bothered..... I’ve just stopped almost as though I forgot about it. And this is over new year when I’ve been drinking a bit! I’ve also gone off food a bit but I knew about that already

AIBU to think that Prozac has actually turned off the faggy switch in my brain? Anyone else??

OP posts:
1foot2feet · 01/01/2020 18:37

@SarahNade have a day off love

Anxiousnance · 01/01/2020 18:47

Hey - similar happened to me when I started anti anxiety meds. Went off booze, food etc - it was like I couldn’t muster any enthusiasm to sort of dedicate space to being excited about it! Ime it got better after a while and I became more interested in stuff again

Muckyboots1 · 01/01/2020 18:55

Don't know whether I want a Mayfair Smooth, a meaty product, or some risqué sex, reading this thread.

lborgia · 01/01/2020 19:09

What a brilliant start to the decade for you OP!

Sarah has been very busy on here in the last couple of days if it's the person I'm thinking of on the oz fires threads... I truly don't think you can use the n word as an example, as that has always been a pejorative. Fags has been around for hundreds of years before being appropriated as a slur.

Your outrage could be better directed, and given your own deletions at the beginning of the thread, you're not really in a position to complain.

ChocChipWookie · 01/01/2020 19:47

Faggots aren't what they used to be. Distinct lack of gravy lately.

HowDoIhelp321 · 01/01/2020 20:00

OP I suffer from PMDD as well.

How is fluoxetine working for you? I was on citalopram which was great but stopped working after about a year. I switched to sertraline but the side effects were unpleasant. Constant hunger, weigh gain and horrifically painful heartburn.

I then got pregnant so came off them altogether.
ds is 1 now and I've got my periods back and not really sure where to go from here.

lborgia · 01/01/2020 21:22

Ask your gp about escitalopram, it has worked long term for me when citalopram didn't.

It's an isomer so they have changed the chemical arrangement.

Certainly keep looking for something that works, it will be out there. Flowers

OP, good on you for giving him a bollocking, but hope he takes it more seriously. Brew

Oooooooooooooooooooh · 01/01/2020 22:01

Keep going OP. That’s one very lucky side effect. I stopped smoking exactly six months ago, when I very suddenly found out I had cancer. It looked initially like a huge lung cancer tumour, but turned out to be in the the mediastinum and much better prognosis.
I was a heavy and avid smoker, who couldn’t imagine giving up. But in a matter of seconds my life spun on its axis and just thought “you fucking fool, you’re going to leave your darling babies without a mother”. So furious in the face of the word cancer. I never touched another one since.

I wish you every strength to never go back.

HowDoIhelp321 · 01/01/2020 22:03

Thanks @iborgia

SproutinducingFarti · 01/01/2020 22:06

I think it could be the Prozac. When I started on it I suddenly stopped biting my fingernails. I didn't plan to, just could I wasn't doing it any more.

Cryingoverspilttea · 01/01/2020 22:07

@SarahNade are you for fucking real? 😂

Fag means cigarette and has naff all to do with homosexuality. Because it's short for Fag-end not Faggot, you absolute mentallist.

VanGoghsDog · 01/01/2020 22:19

Surely in today's day the word would be obsolete.

Except it's not, is it, as people keep telling you.

Here's a lovely recipe for you: www.thespruceeats.com/classic-british-faggots-recipe-435283

Hellbentwellwent · 01/01/2020 22:37

@sarahnade have a read of this article and listen to the song, I’d love to hear your analysis, I’d also pay good money and buy everyone popcorn to see you tell a gay artist that they couldn’t use the word fag as it was offensive when they’ve clearly decided they think your elbows up your own arse

Hellbentwellwent · 01/01/2020 22:40

Forgot the link!
www.advocate.com/music/2019/2/25/unis-american-fag-queer-anthem-and-pushback-pc-culture
Crack on

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 02/01/2020 13:05

I'm not sure that"American Fag" is all that good an example of the word being ok, because of who is using it there.

I think it has always been ok for a black man to greet a black friend with "hey nigguh!" and reclaim the word; it just isn't ok for you or me to use it. Likewise when "earnest" meant homosexual, Oscar Wilde could write "The Importance of Being Earnest" but it would have been iffy for Shaw to do so, and equally iffy for Shaw to talk about bunburying.

But sorry, fag really isn't a good hill to choose to die on, because fag really isn't exclusively a slur on homosexuals any more than queen or gay is. Poofter, yes (a pouf or pooffer is just a tuffet), insulting. Queer used to be until it was reclaimed. But you can't have fag all for yourself; we got there first. And contrary to some American belief, America is not the only place in the world.

Crog off, there's a good girl.

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 02/01/2020 13:06

That last sentence was addressed to sarahnade not
Hellbentwellwent. I realised just after I hit "post2 that it could be read either way. Sorry.

FagAsh · 02/01/2020 17:45

@iborgia yes, she's been bitch plopping all over the place!

@HowDoIhelp321 early days but I don't feel calmer as such, a bit wired, we'll see.... I have about a week to go... If my period takes me by surprise then I'll know 😂

For those pp talking about compulsions... I'm very impulsive/compulsive, so eat drink and buy whatever I want, it's become a destructive mind set tbh. Interesting to read about nail-biting...yet another vice of mine @SproutinducingFarti

However I'd also say, it's affecting my sense of taste quite a bit so fags just taste ewwww so probably two modes of action then.

@Oooooooooooooooooooh so sorry to hear that, have you started treatment yet?

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WitchenKitch · 02/01/2020 20:08

@SarahNade it's 2020 love. We'very all decided to leave performative outrage and professional offense-taking behind in the 2010s. Sorry you missed the memo.

OP what a great result! It makes sense that if the AD is working your body doesn't need the stress relief of nicotine.

Veterinari · 02/01/2020 20:23

@SarahNade

Are you really arguing that every country should change its vocabulary on the off chance that someone from the Southern USA finds it offensive? Does that not seem rather dictatorial and imperialistic?

Fag/faggot has multiple meanings in English and is well understood in a UK context on this UK forum. In this thread the context is clear.

I’d suggest that if you’re so easily offended, you might want to find a new forum

Fraggling · 02/01/2020 20:35

Hello op that's great! I was prescribed zyban about 13 years ago for smoking cessation, it worked a treat. The original use was as an anti depressant, while trialling it they found that the anti depressant effects were ok, but all the smokers it was tested on had quit! The dose for smoking cessation was half what they had tested as an AD.

So there you go- keep going with the Alan Carr and stick with it, and hope you feel better generally.

PS I used to love fags!

PPS isn't there a USA film called shag... WTAF OBSCENE should be banned.

FagAsh · 02/01/2020 20:48

@fraggling

I used to love fags too!! Wink

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FagAsh · 02/01/2020 20:50

Sorry pressed send too soon...

I just don't understand why it's kicked in after a week when you're not supposed to feel any benefits before a month?

OP posts:
Fraggling · 02/01/2020 20:56

For the smoking cessation they said a week or 2, maybe quicker than for mood...

It was weird they said don't try to stop, I kept at it, but found myself stubbing the fags out halfway through as it was just meh.

Showed up totally how right Allen Carr was about it being nicotine addiction and all the other 'reasons' were not actually reasons at all!

Good luck x

ravensoaponarope · 02/01/2020 20:59

Are people in the US going to stop using the word "spaz"? Very much a slur here.
That's great, OP. It didn't do that for me when I was on it.

Fraggling · 02/01/2020 21:11

Fanny pack is better bizarre.

Fanny means vulva/cunt.

I'm going to go on the INTERNET and tell Americans off Grin

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