questioning paternity of baby.. Need advice

[Penny12355]

So I have definitly posted about this before.. but alot has changed since then, I am no longer with my ex fiance due to physical violence not that long ago. But for some reason now it still lingers in my head especially now that were broke up for some reason.. I would hate to keep him in my life if he wasnt even the dad if that makes sense, but to be completely honest I would rather my ex fiance be the dad because I know hes realy good with children and a good dad even though he was a dick to me and to be honest I dont know the other guy to well and we havent spoke since..

But anyway going back to april me and him broke up for a good while and I was single and stupidly slept with someone on a night out, now before anyone judges I never usually do this! The guy was a guy I was messaging back and forth a bit but I wasnt that interested in him and I got drunk one night and we didnt use any protection or anything.. this was the 25th of may.. (my last period was the 11th of may) I have long cycles of 33/34 days, then the next day i panicked and went and got the Mornin after pill (12 hours later) then on the 1st of june I had a bleed and it lasted for 3 days I had to use pads.. so then on the 9th,14th and 18th of june I done pregnancy tests just to make sure and they all came back negative, and in june I got back with my boyfriend (ex) on the 3rd of june and we had sex everyday in june maybe apart from a few days, it wasnt until the 26th of June I got my first positive and it said 2-3 weeks, I then done another test on the 29th of June and it also said 2-3 weeks, then on the 3rd of July it just changed to 3+.. I then went and got an early scan on the 17th of july and they told me I was 6 weeks.. 6 weeks plus 1 it was measuring at, then another scan on the 5th of august and it was saying 9 weeks aswell so every scan I have got has always went back to my last bleed on the 1st of june.. also my due date has never changed it has always stayed at 7th of march, can anyone give me advice?? I'm like 99.9 percent sure it is my ex fiances and not the guy from 25th of may but I'm just terrified incase she comes soon and she looks fuck all like him or somethin and its panicking me a bit 😂 thank you for reading

Do not put him on the birth certificate.

But how will OP demonstrate domestic abuse? (In order to request supervised contact only)

Only if she goes to the police. Which of course she should. He is dangerous, we all know the link between choking as part of domestic abuse and death of women and children, as the outcome, the risk factors. Murder. if she's even contemplating letting him have access to her child. This can't be real. OP the father of your child is irrelevant. You need to protect yourself and your child. Go to the police, report him. They will take this seriously. Maybe you're in denial.

Sorry he was violent to you. But this man is not a good man

You need to go to he police. Also report to SS since he has a 7 yo dd he could end up hurting.

Yeah I will go to the police to, I can get good advice to as I have a family member in the police

Good.
www.womensaid.org.uk/
Please do contact Women's Aid for support and guidance. And report him to SS as said. Polive will also advise you. You are at extreme risk because of having been choked by your ex, there is a link between this and women later being killed by the men who have choked them, not necessarily the first act itself that kills them. Women and their children get murdered by the men who choke them. The police know this and will help you. You are in danger, we all wish you and your baby to be safe. Change your focus from dates and conception, to making yourself safe.