Would you cheat on a desert island?

[ElizaZ]

More of a WWYD actually.

Hypothetical situation.

Imagine you’re very attracted to another man. He’s flirted with you, made it a little obvious that he’s attracted to you too, etc. You haven’t succumbed to him because you’re both married and it would be wrong.

However, you’re both stranded on a desert island in some kind of unexpected shipwreck. You have no idea how long you will be there. It could be a day. It could be forever.

Would you kiss him? Would you have sex with him? How long would you resist for? A week, a month, a year, 20 years, a lifetime?

What if this was your husband/brother/male friend? Would he kiss her? Have sex with her?

Thanks

This thread is amazing!

Yes I would shag him. Would try not to but those sunsets sound lovely. And I have the mirena.

No way am I doing unprotected sex again and esp not somewhere with no gas and air!!

The comment about the satphone is literally only the 3rd thing that has made me properly laugh out loud on mumsnet ever 😂😂😂

No, visually admiring them is plenty with decent conversation. Even then I would feel an little guilty.

I’d die much more soundly knowing I was a decent and respectful to the person that loves me and made a commitment to each other.

Sad but true. I’ve had rocky relationships and been cheated on, it’s a gut wrenching feeling and I wouldn’t want anyone to feel that way who was undeserving.

Was just wondering if a satphone would fit up there, they are fairly bulky I think...

I’d be too sad and missing my partner and kids to feel horny :(

Although if it was gunna happen it really kinda needs to happen almost immediately. I’m Mediterranean and go full yeti within 2 days, I’d be hairier than him. I’m injected so would be oryt for a bit I guess but I think I’d be too terrified to get pregnant.

I don’t feel I can answer this properly as I have no Male friends I find attractive in any kind of way

And I’m also not sexually attracted to my brother

Nope, couldn’t do it. My DH and I have been through too much together, I honestly couldn’t open up like that again to anyone else. Nor would I fancy giving birth on a desert island with my medical history, so there’s that too!

And by that I mean I was just out of my teens when we met, and was with him when I found out I had cancer. He’s been with me through everything, I could’ve died, and I couldn’t pursue Desert Man while there was any hope of seeing my DH again.

No i wouldn't.

I'm a loner by nature, have Aspergers and the only company I can tolerate for drawn out periods is my DH and my children.

I love my DH with everything I have, if something should happen to him or we become separated in such a way, I would never sleep with another person so long as I live. Boaky to some but it's just the way I am. Can't speak for my DH but he has my blessing to move on quickly should anything happen to me.

I'd head to the other side of the island and wait for desert island man to perish, then I'd make a fine set of musical instruments with his bones. I can live without sex, not sure I'd last long without music.

Unless it's Ray Mars or such then I'd probably consider him my future larder. But first get a shelter and a source of fresh water etc.

I would bang and then eat him - prane mantis style baby :))

My desert island scenario of being shipwrecked with other people is one where I imagine how to start a banking system/currency for the future island economy.

For sex, I prefer to imagine scenarios that are much closer to everyday life. If a desert island is my best hope, I'm fucked. Metaphorically, not literally.

I'd shag him within the first fortnight and feel no guilt whatsoever.i have no moral
compass and unfaithfulness means fuck all.

Bring it on!