To ask what does your DH/DP do for a living?

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Was married to someone for 6 years who did fuck all in or out of the house. He's very workshy and his lack of ambition and laziness killed any love I had for him. I couldn't respect him. Funny enough I was made to feel a 'gold digger' Never again.

So I'm just curious, what does your DH do for a living?

Crane operator

DH - Facilitates Manager
Me - Senior Business Analyst

both work in financial services with good pension, private medical etc.

Mechanic. We opened our own garage a year ago and have never been so skint.... hopefully the big bucks will come rolling in soon!

My DH has his own carpentry firm.

Electrician, I’m speech therapist and we earn about the same....

SAHD
And a fabulous one at that!

DH = rent boy
Me = dominatrix

We masquerade as accountants. It’s easier for those form filling exercises. There’s never a box for sex work.

Number one mechanic on a race car, so he's away lots but sadly the salary is peanuts...it's his dream job though so I'm happy to be the main bread winner

DH runs the IT department at a non-profit organization.

What an interesting exercise in the fine art of British class signaling thread.

Something to do with defence systems in the Middle East where he also lives (due to work)
He came out of the Armed Forces last year.

Social worker

Power BI Developer

Quite depressing that women feel the need to stress that they are not gold diggers if their DH has a high paying job.

Househusband?
Homemaker?
Kept man?
Carer?

Take your pick.

DH is a musician/guitarist.

Something to do with science. Is reasonably well paid (but nowhere near £70k). I work in marketing.

Merchant navy officer- marine engineering. Well paid depending on the job and if he is out of the country for a certain amount of days per year then he gets all of his tax back.

It’s quite interesting how a lot of DH’s are in similar jobs. My DH is a financial advisor and Director within the company.

Investment banker.

GP.

Retired PO now Co Director our company
Me retired banker now Co director our company.

What do you do OP and why do you ask?

M&E Director

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SAHD currently after being made redundant last year. Before that he was a manager in retail.

Although money is tighter, life has been so much easier this year having dh at home and he absolutely loves (and excels at!) it. The house is always clean, there’s always someone to take the dc to activities, we don’t need childcare and for the first time in ten years we’re not like passing ships trying to juggle work/family/life.

We’re currently working on opening our own online retail business so that he doesn’t have to go back to full time work when dc3 starts school in 2 years.