Hi there. Wondering if I’m right being upset or not? I’ve known husband was messaging his old female school friend who is a burlesque dancer. Not bothered. He was invited to a show next year. Again not bothered. I checked the messages which sounds awful of me but we are quite open about that and they talk about family etc but also how they wish they had had sex, how she would love to sit on his knee with glitter, he would .....love to see her tassels. She’s shown him photos of her half naked in her show, no problem, but also sent one with her in her bra with lots of cleavage and another of her butt crack. I asked him about it and it’s friends catching up and I’m taking it out of context. I just think if it was me he wouldn’t be happy.
Now I’m feeling really rubbish about myself anyway so I could understand why he would get excited about a hot girl messaging him. Maybe I’m just weird!