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To give £100 Xmas bonus to cleaner

299 replies

AlorMy · 17/12/2019 16:36

Usually pay her £25 a week.

She’s been cleaning my home about 8 months so first Xmas.

I’m thinking of £100. Is that too much? Not enough?

YABU = too little
YANBU = anything else (just right/too much)

OP posts:
ethelfleda · 17/12/2019 17:23

I give £60 OP. But you give £100 if you can afford it Smile

ThisIsSanta · 17/12/2019 17:24

Our old cleaner we paid for the two weeks holiday and gave her a bottle of vodka (her drink). She is one of my most loved friends now.

Our current cleaner I am tempted to give a cleaning cloth, a bottle of flash and a link to some YouTube cleaning videos, but instead will smiling nicely and wishing her a happy Christmas.

Planesmistakenforstars · 17/12/2019 17:26

I think it's generous, but not outrageous. I'm a gardener, I have one private customer where me and a partner spend about 2 hours a week at the property charging £40/hour. The last three or so years at Christmas we've been given a tip of £120 between us, plus some nice wine and chocolates each. I think it's very kind of you, it means a lot to know that work is appreciated.

StinkyXmasCheese · 17/12/2019 17:28

Woah! Too much! 1 weeks wages would be a good amount!

inwood · 17/12/2019 17:29

Well she's nit going to turn it down! If you can afford it and she does a good job go for it.

Orangecake123 · 17/12/2019 17:31

If you can afford it go for it.

I think it's very lovely of you.

DowntownAbby · 17/12/2019 17:32

I hope my cleaner's not on here - I've given her £50 for Christmas, not 2 hours ago, which is the same as we pay her per week.

She'll think we're tight sods if she sees this!

womenspeakout · 17/12/2019 17:33

If you can afford it, I'm sure she'll appreciate the wonderful bonus.

Times are hard for a lot of people, if you won't miss £100, it would be a lovely gesture.

dottiedodah · 17/12/2019 17:33

I think that is a large amount TBH. Most cleaners would be happy with half that.However if you can afford it, then why not ! she will certainly have a very good time !

maggieryan · 17/12/2019 17:33

i think 100 is very generous and if you can afford it why not. Very kind of you.

DuchessofWoke · 17/12/2019 17:34

As others have said, it a very generous amount.

Standard practice at Christmas is to pay one week’s wages. So if you give her £25 a week, you leave that as a gift.

KnightandDay · 17/12/2019 17:34

Way too much I think! I was planning on giving my cleaner a box of nice biscuits/chocolates and selection boxes for her kids. I do really appreciate her but can't afford a week's fee plus Christmas bonus.

Elphame · 17/12/2019 17:35

I normally give £100 + a gift but I've had my cleaner for 15 years now

PizzaExpressWoking · 17/12/2019 17:37

Like most people, I would give a week's wages in a Christmas card.

Nothing against you giving £100, except that you will probably be creating an expectation that you will do the same in future years. If that's not likely to be a problem, then fine Xmas Smile

Chickoletta · 17/12/2019 17:40

Bottle of wine and a card here!

lilgreen · 17/12/2019 17:40

Very generous!

coffeeoclock · 17/12/2019 17:41

That's so lovely, if you can afford it I'm sure it would be much appreciated!

Justaboy · 17/12/2019 17:46

Very kind and generous of you to do that and think of your cleaner:)

LilyPinkNoah · 17/12/2019 17:49

Sorry to hi jack my cleaner is £30 a week (£15 an hour). I was going to give the £30 for this week and then she's off next week so I was going to give her £40 - maybe I should give the £30 for the week and £50 cash?!

Lumene · 17/12/2019 17:51

Week’s pay.

Scardanelli · 17/12/2019 17:53

Bloody Hell. I'm going to work as a cleaner if that's the kind of bonus I could expect.

I can't afford a cleaner, never mind a £100 bonus, so I don't know what the 'right' amount would be. I'd suggest an extra week's pay, though.

Blankscreen · 17/12/2019 17:54

Do you pay your cleaners over the Christmas holidays ?

If not then giving them a weeks pay isn't really a bonus it just helps make up lost wages.

Op I think if you can afford it then go for it. How nice of you.

Bluerussian · 17/12/2019 17:55

£100 is smashing but as she's only been with you eight months, I think £50 would be more appropriate.

kateandme · 17/12/2019 17:55

i you can afford it and she is good then i cant see how anything i too much.give the woman a million an it would be.if its what you want to do.she will be overjoyed and it miht make a real difference.

shockthemonkey · 17/12/2019 17:58

I think that's spot on. It's what in France we call "the thirteenth month". One month's worth of pay is a nice bonus and fair, if she's good.