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Neighbours constantly rowing

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An0nym0us2011 · 14/12/2019 21:00

So iv lived in my property for 2 months. Eveeery night my neighbors aruge, really loudly, slamming doors, tonight threw something and it hit the wall, all we could tonight was "f"ing moron"..."it's my f"g house ".... "Your a borimg c**t". I have two young kids and it wakes them up.
They have a son and I can't imagine it's pleasant for him either.

Do I say something? Or aibu?

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DragonontheWagon · 14/12/2019 21:04

Of course you need to speak to either them if they're homeowners but if they're renting and unreasonable then speak to the landlord.

user1493413286 · 14/12/2019 21:09

I’d go down the line of “is everything ok as I heard some banging from yours last night”.
The only thing that I would think about is do you hear both arguing or is it just one person having a go at the other? If you suspect some kind of domestic abuse then I’d tread carefully about saying anything to the person doing the shouting as it could make things unsafe for the other person.
If it’s really bad then I’d be tempted to call the police and ask the police to say that a passerby reported it.

AnneLovesGilbert · 14/12/2019 21:09

One side of mine are like that. It’s not daily but every couple of weeks it kicks off and often then for days at a time and I’ve called the police a couple of times - they’re well known by the police but they always send someone out. They’re hideous people, both shockingly violent and language and at volume you wouldn’t believe. They’re been hating each other loudly for over 20 years. Everyone knows what they’re like and I’m scared of the husband so wouldn’t ever mention it. So I try and ignore it and then if it gets worse than usual I call the police. While they haven’t killed each other yet I don’t want to not have done something should it happen.

You have my heartfelt sympathy, it’s fucking awful.

Troels · 14/12/2019 21:27

I wouldn't speak about it. I'd call the police.

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