I have a DH, 2 adult sons, with partners, and a granddaughter.
Three years ago, I would happily blow £700 ish on presents for everyone. Noone actually wanted, or needed anything, so wtf were we running around like idiots trying to dredge up crap to spend money on?
Since then, we all buy for the child, but have a maximum spend of £25-30 per person now for close family.
It is BRILLIANT!
I get things I actually want - leather gloves, pyjamas, smellies, rather than poncey outdoor fire thingys or games I will never play that cost a bomb.
We use no sparkly packaging, but do beautifully wrapped parcels.
I used to buy up half of Sainsburys a week before Christmas. I did not waste a lot, to be fair, but ate a disgusting amount of crap (I am not being up my bum here, still eat an extraordinarily amount of rubbish), now I buy what people eat, not what I think they shpild eat.
We have regressed tbh. We now spend a lot of time as a family playing daft games, walking on the beach, eating and drinking and just being together rather than spend, spendm spend.
I am honestly not being holier than thou. I gave done the mega Christmas for years quite happily, just sick with the waste of it all now.