Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To think that only posh people say Father Christmas?!

999 replies

charliesp · 05/12/2019 12:20

And everyone else says Santa?

I say Santa but my posh DH and all his family and posh friends say Father Christmas.

Anyone else noticed this? Or AIBU?

OP posts:
dreichXmas · 05/12/2019 18:23

@derxa I have never felt more leanings towards joining the SNP than after this thread 😂

ArnoldWhatshisknickers · 05/12/2019 18:25

Interestingly my experience of a USA Christmas, (I am making an assumption that we are thinking about this country rather than Scotland or Ireland?) is that it is much less commercial than an English Christmas.

Perhaps because it is so soon after Thanksgiving in the US?

phoenixrosehere · 05/12/2019 18:27

Just because you say it one way, doesn’t mean you have to slag off the other way, there’s just no need for it.

This. I honestly don’t get why it f-ing matters. Whether you say Father Christmas, Santa, or St.Nick (funny enough heard all of these growing up in the States) most people know who you’re speaking of.

chipsychopsy · 05/12/2019 18:27

Some might say it's fitting that the Scottish and Irish have adopted a term based on European culture, while the English...haven't.

RollOnNextYear · 05/12/2019 18:28

We say both.. I don't know why. We're certainly not posh!

cukooboo · 05/12/2019 18:30

Also all the people who think Santa is tacky & wrong do you not have any Scottish or Irish friends? There are loads of them in England particularly when you take into account those with Scottish/Irish heritage.

gingergittable · 05/12/2019 18:31

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

cukooboo · 05/12/2019 18:32

Well yes, it was interesting to hear that Santa is the norm in Scotland and Ireland.

So did you not read the thread before you posted the below?

Agree with others who see Santa as an Americanism

LimitIsUp · 05/12/2019 18:32

Yes, I have realised that it is not just an Americanism. Its obviously popular in Scotland, Ireland, Australia and other places (I haven't read all 23 pages - so I may have missed some countries out) As another poster pointed out - the false impression that it is an Americanism comes from Hollywood Christmas movies

As far as I am concerned people can call Father Christmas (my preference) whatever they like without judgement from me [searches for white flag to wave]

gingergittable · 05/12/2019 18:34

@cukooboo why is it ok to call Americans tacky and wrong but not Scots or Irish? Confused

thesunwillout · 05/12/2019 18:34

South Wales upbringing Father Christmas here

cukooboo · 05/12/2019 18:35

I wasn't calling Americans tacky but if you can't work that out....

LimitIsUp · 05/12/2019 18:35

cuckooboo - no I didn't read the entire thread and nor do I think it is necessary to do that as a precondition for posting (unless its a particularly contentious subject then its useful to skim it). Who would have thought that this thread would have got ansty (although I might have suspected that given the mention of class in the title)

Notreallyhappy · 05/12/2019 18:37

Not posh here,,, it's father Christmas...

FloraGreysteel · 05/12/2019 18:38

I never knew any Scots or Irish people growing up, no. My family are Welsh.

fluffiphlox · 05/12/2019 18:39

I am in my early sixties and was brought up in South Wales I a working class family. Nobody said Santa when I was growing up. I still say Father Christmas.

Windyone · 05/12/2019 18:39

@LimitIsUp you should ALWAYS read the thread 😀

FloraGreysteel · 05/12/2019 18:40

Same, @fluffiphlox

cukooboo · 05/12/2019 18:40

I think it's useful to at least skim threads, you never know what you may learn!

Yetanotherwinter · 05/12/2019 18:40

I’m not posh and I say Father Christmas. Santa sounds very American to me.

dementedpixie · 05/12/2019 18:43

I’m not posh and I say Father Christmas. Santa sounds very American to me

Aaarrrrgggghhhh. Fuck sake, switch the record off

ScreamingValenta · 05/12/2019 18:45

Xmas Grin We definitely have a new 'cancel the cheque' on this thread.

gingergittable · 05/12/2019 18:46

So do the North Welsh say Santa?

StarlingsInSummer · 05/12/2019 18:46

We says Father Christmas growing up but as Santa has become more pervasive in English society (for whatever reason), we’ve started using that more. It’s a bit quicker to say and DS uses it all the time.

StarlingsInSummer · 05/12/2019 18:46

*We said, that should be.

Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is closed and is no longer accepting replies. Click here to start a new thread.