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AIBU?

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Ambushed by charity workers

184 replies

Berrylove · 03/12/2019 16:29

What’s a polite way that actually works to get the charity collectors on the streets to leave me alone?

Don’t get me wrong, I’ve given plenty to charity in my life, given food to homeless on my way hone from work etc. But now I’m a young mum struggling to make ends meet, my ability to ‘give’ has obviously changed. Not to mention on the rare occasion I do donate, whether it be to a charity or a busker, it’s a guarantee I’ll be asked for yet another donation only a minute walks away.
Yesterday in my city centre I was walking with my parter and dd, when a mental health awareness person came to ask for a donation, my partner gave to them, which is fine, but then only about 100ft away we were asked again by the same charity, and then again on the next corner! We told both we’d already given to the first guy but the last guy didn’t seem happy still.

I love the idea of charity but AIBU to be sick of being asked and people getting in my path stopping me in the street to ask? I’ve done the old sorry I don’t have any change as it’s just quick and easier than explaining I can’t afford to keep giving my money away to be then told they take card. (Said card guy also said minimum donation was £2.50, shouldn’t I get to choose the donation? He made me feel bad for not wanting to pay that much, I even said that it was a bit expensive for me).
If I gave to everyone that asked I’d need charity myself.

What do you guys do in these situations?

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Morporkia · 04/12/2019 16:54

One came up to me when I was carrying my husbands crash helmet with”hey fellow biker” so I proceeded to ask him what bike he had...” errrr is not a manufacturer I’m familiar with” as I walked away 😂

Whattodoabout · 04/12/2019 16:56

I just say no thanks and keep walking. Some of them are ridiculously persistent and irritating but I just ignore them. I have no time for it, if I wanted to donate to charity I would do it off my own back.

Juliette20 · 04/12/2019 16:59

Just say "no thank you" even if your answer doesn't make sense in response to the question.

Fishlegs · 04/12/2019 17:02

I just smile sweetly at them and tell them I don’t sign up to direct debits on the street, same thing if they knock at the door. They’ve got nowhere to go then, I’ve cut to the chase (politely) so they don’t tend to offer any more chat. I don’t feel bad as it’s their job, they’re (usually) not volunteering.

Stinkycatbreath · 04/12/2019 17:19

Just ignore and walk around. I pretend im om the phone😉

Mandate · 04/12/2019 17:21

"I don't sign up for donations on the street"
Or, if they are at the door
"I don't sign up for donations on the doorstep"

DollyPomPoms · 04/12/2019 17:23

I tell them I already donate to whichever charity they work for!

CustomerCervixDepartment · 05/12/2019 23:19

Do not thank them! What the fuck is wrong with you all?! No need to thank street harassers, wise up.

user1471582494 · 05/12/2019 23:47

Why do you feel the need to be polite?
They are hassling you in the street.
Don't shout or be rude, but no need to spare their feelings as they obviously don't care about yours!

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