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To ask where I can buy jeans and trousers for tall, fat women with small waists and big bottoms?

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User12879923378 · 30/11/2019 13:18

I am at the end of my tether in my quest for jeans in the UK. I am tall, about a size 24-26 in bottoms, but with a relatively small waist and a big bottom and big thighs. I cannot find any English shop that does not assume that I will carry most of my weight around my waist. At size 24-26 most jeans gape horribly round my waist and stomach but only just fit around my thighs.

All recommendations gratefully accepted, including, at this stage, tailoring...

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flower475 · 30/11/2019 14:03

Have you tried Evans' curve fit jeans? I have the same problem and they're the only ones that are a decent fit on me.

wonderstuff · 30/11/2019 14:07

Its rubbish. I'm slim with a big bottom and small waist, I've not found jeans that fit well for years. Always have a baggy back. For years I wondered who these hunch backs were before realising it was a arse to hip ratio problem. Levi's used to do a range for curvy women, but stopped it about a decade ago.

GrumpyHoonMain · 30/11/2019 14:16

How small is your waist in comparison to your hips? As that will inform the advice really. Also is your chest / waist flat and relatively small throughout (proper pear) or don you have big breasts and a high waist with a spare tyre in your lower belly?

I had (before pregnancy) a pear shape with 40 inch bust, 28 inch flat waist and 44 inch hips and found Topshop’s size 14 or 16 Joni jean and trousers perfect for when I wanted something snug around my waist. But if I wanted zero stretch ‘authentic’ denim then GAP’s authentic straight was my go to.

It’s more difficult to find stuff that fits pears properly in plus sizes beyond a size 18, but when I was a size 20 (52 inch hips with a 32 inch waist lol) I found the plus size sections at H&M and Asos (then quite new) pretty good for jeans and trousers and that was years ago. Both shops have since expanded their plus size range.

Oneborneverydecade · 30/11/2019 15:16

I've just discovered Weekday jeans. I'm tall and they go up to a 34" leg, waist sizes go up in 1" increments which is unusual I think. That said I have a belly so am quite possibly a different shape

User12879923378 · 01/12/2019 04:36

There's about 20 inches between my waist and bum, and my boobs are huge too. I don't mind my shape of itself (although I am trying to get some of the sand out of the hourglass) but nowhere seems to cater for this shape at all! At least I am not alone. I haven't been to Evans for ages to be fair - maybe I should give them another shot.

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User12879923378 · 01/12/2019 04:36

Maybe Weekday is worth a try too

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AaandBreathe · 01/12/2019 07:44

I think probably your best bet is to get some which fit around the thighs and take them to a sewing person (dressmaker? Seamstress? I have no idea what the job title is Blush ) to take them in at the waist.

User12879923378 · 01/12/2019 09:01

Hmm, maybe. I don't know how easy it is to take in jeans round the waist but it is worth a shot.

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BuffaloCauliflower · 01/12/2019 09:03

That’s quite an extreme difference. Tailoring is definitely the answer, but also maybe skirts and dresses instead of jeans? From your description they’d be more flattering on your shape

BuffaloCauliflower · 01/12/2019 09:04
  • more flattering and more easy to fit!
Bonnie555 · 01/12/2019 11:00

A button either side at the waist would cinch it in.

Oysterbabe · 01/12/2019 11:03

I think jeans suit all body shapes. I'd wear dresses instead.

BinkyBaa · 01/12/2019 11:13

I dont think any jeans fit me without a belt.

Cherrysoup · 01/12/2019 11:14

Try Pixie jeans from Simply Be. They are a good fit on my fat legs and come in a tall version.

Oysterbabe · 01/12/2019 14:11

*don't

EagleVisionSquirrelWork · 01/12/2019 15:05

Cotton Traders

HostessTrolley · 01/12/2019 15:19

I have a small waist relative to my hips and thighs, and love Levi’s 312/314 jeans - they go up to uk size 26. Not the cheapest but they’ve got 30% off at the moment. Might be worth a look

RosieLancs · 01/12/2019 16:00

High waisted jeans from Simply Be, I'm the same size and shape as you and these were a game changer for me.
I'd always avoided high waisted stuff as for some reason I thought they were for skinny ladies but boy was I wrong, absolutely the most comfortable jeans I've ever owned

User12879923378 · 01/12/2019 16:02

That is the conclusion that I had come to, actually, that jeans were a non-starter - they were, to be fair, as annoying to buy when I was a size 14 years ago. But I have an injury that means I am not massive comfortable with showing off my legs these days and long dresses don't really conceal it. But perhaps I just need to remind myself that no one's anything like as interested in my legs as I am anyway Grin

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User12879923378 · 01/12/2019 16:03

Lots of ideas here to get cracking with though. Thanks all!

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