Hi. I had an appointment and my daughter was going to spend the night at my mums house so I asked my child’s dad if he can stay at the house until my mum arrives to get daughter. I went to the appointment, received a call from my mother to say she has daughter and will be heading home now, I went home a hour later to find that my daughters dad was still here... we had a really good friendship so thought nothing of it.
I asked him later when he was leaving and he said soon, he asked to order a Uber off my phone and later give me the money back so I agreed.
Once he had my phone he started calling me a slut, he went through my messages and noticed I was talking to a Male ( I’m not with my daughters father so no clue why he was so angry ) I asked him to pass my phone and tried to get it off him. He then punched me in my face causing my lip to start bleeding. Now I wanted my phone to call police and make him leave. But he’s so much bigger than me and I couldn’t get my phone. He kept calling me a slut... I left the room as I didn’t want anything to escalate and stayed in the living room. He came and made me give him oral sex, I kept saying no and moving my head but he would put me in a restraint position and forcefully move my hand and hold my head. I tried to leave after but he told me if I leave and try call the police that he would go to court and get custody of my daughter so I literally felt helpless I don’t want this happening at all. He ended up leaving but I now want to move and do not want him having anything to do with my daughter. I’m even considering changing me and daughters names so he won’t find us. Am I wrong for this ?